Introduction to Introversion

How many people, so many characters and types. However, introverts, which will be discussed in the article, are unlikely to differ developed sociability, easy rapprochement with many people and love for noisy, magnificent events, where there should be a lot of people. So who are they, introverts? What are their strengths and weaknesses? You will learn about this in the article.


So, this is not a text, but just a series of questions:

If you have all the "yes", I congratulate you, most likely, you are introvert. If you realized that you learned in your person your girlfriend or a friend, most likely, she is an introvert.

Introvert and extrovert

An introvert and an extrovert are different as the sky and the earth. An extraterrestrial person is an active, mobile, constantly charged energy essence, unable to sit still for a boring monotonous work. Often, introverts dislike boring things, few people like them at all, but most often it is introverts that become those who do routine work. Especially if at the same time all communication with people is minimized.

Introverts keep their emotions in themselves, they do not pour out their surroundings. If the introvert is jealous, he does it silently. If it hurts and it hurts, he will cry, perhaps when no one sees, but the offender is unlikely to say something in person. An extrovert also splashes emotions to the right and to the left, making a loud, expressive, sometimes demonstrative.

Introvert loves loneliness, knows how to appreciate and enjoy it, unlike an extrovert, to whom a week without people can seem like hell. An introvert feels himself and the surrounding world subtly, letting him through his own special prism of perception. Often people of this type become artists, writers or choose another creative profession (only not a musician, this is one of the desires that can not be realized in practice because of the dislike of the large number of spectators). This not only helps to reveal the inner "I", but also announces the bosses and colleagues to work with, which have to communicate daily.

Introvert is most often closed. This does not mean that you do not want to drink badly and do not want to get drunk and go on rowdy, walk and have fun as all-normal people, but in 90% of cases introverts do not become "the soul of the company." In addition, when only a couple of people, best friends, then introverts show a much greater activity ; they joke, make merry and have fun, and out of place make an impression of unsociable personalities. True, it is worth at least one friend, a new, especially newcomer to join his girlfriends, as an introvert wilts and returns to his shell, again in himself zamyrkas.

Introverts always need a respite after a long conversation with people. They can listen, they can leave and even give a couple of tips, but if they spent the whole night listening to others, and trying to communicate, they will be like a squeezed lemon in the morning. Then they need to withdraw into themselves, rest from all, then return to the usual rut.

All of the above does not mean that all introverts are unfinished creatures, afraid to leave the house. No, it is not so (although there are such), they are simply more closed than extrovert, and they prefer to come to an imaginary party created in the head of the head rather than the real one.

Naturally, there are hardly any ladies who fully and completely express only one half, this happens very, very rarely, most often extraversion and introversion are combined, just one part dominates. But still any girl or extrovert who loves periodic solitude, or introvert , sometimes too active.

Minuses

  1. Modesty, shyness, external unsociability and inaccuracy. Because of these qualities, introverts can not be the first to get acquainted, and even if they did it for them, they can easily scare away, unwittingly, their "inactivity".
  2. Depression, disruption and rolls of bad mood. Since most introverts keep everything in themselves, all their experiences and problems, this is bad for them. Everyone knows that speaking out is extremely useful, for this, psychologists are invented, in general. And if the extrovert can throw all the problems onto the shoulders of a new acquaintance, and then continue to enjoy life, the Wintrovert will not come out.
  3. Fears, paranoia, reluctance to impose. The introverted girls almost never write first. This is not the feminine feature that most young ladies sin, counting on active steps only from the male side, this is fear and paranoia. Introverts think that they are. Usually it only seems to them, but it is difficult to convince them.
  4. Painful parting. Friends, friends, loved one, in the end, we all understand that nothing lasts forever. Extroverts, after suffering a little, it's easy to find a replacement, but introverts are problematic. They get used to it for a long time and get even more out of man.

pros

  1. Introverts, as already mentioned, for a long time get used to other people. But if they get used to, if you got into friends an introvert person, you are lucky, because they are the most loyal friends. Yes, you can not often go to shops or clubs, because introverts do not like this, but if you need moral support, you will be provided with a full one.
  2. Introverts are independent and intelligent. Due to the fact that they spend a lot of time alone, they will at some point feel like self-education, self-development. And they are capable of this, because they do not need real people for this, ready to explain that, yes how, introvertsami they will do everything if they want. They do not need someone else's help, they like to solve their own problems (although on close ones, parents, for example, they can dump their problems).
  3. Introverts are often, as again, mentioned earlier, creative personalities. This is definitely a huge plus. Sometimes this happens because of great talent, but due to aesthetic taste, loneliness and desire to make your world better and more beautiful. While extroverts are walking, introverts, sitting alone at home, take a pencil and learn to draw. Once again, if it did not work out, until the drawings get the right outlines.
  4. Introverts are the most wonderful and sincere listeners. They are willing to listen to the problems not only of "their own", but also of strangers. Another thing is that they rarely give good advice, but listen - always please. They will not interrupt you to urgently insert your comment or a related story, they will listen to all your speeches. That is why the extroverts and introverts fit together, because the two introverts will feel uncomfortable: both are silent, both are desperately trying to think of something to say aloud and do not look stupid, both wind up themselves, mentally repeating "It's me to blame" or something like that . In general, a person who is ready to chatter without interruption, and introvert perfectly fit each other. Another thing is that the stick does not need to move, no one is iron.

The result

As you can see, there are pros and cons in introversion. Much dependent on the environment of a person, from his friends, relatives and friends and their support, but as if the introvert did not try to become an extrovert, it would only be a mask, so it's easier to reconcile and develop your advantages.