They can be emotional, romantic, sensual, affectionate and tender in a candy-bouquet period, but they only need to achieve their half as feelings cool down.
In fact, this is not so. Just for men and women, love manifests itself very differently. The love of a woman is aimed at the world of people, and touches little of the world of things. And the love of a man is expressed through the love of the world of things, and not the world of people. There are, of course, also hardened bachelors who live only with work, and the need for love is realized through short-lived romances. But, in general, all the representatives of the male sex can be said with great certainty that men choose promotion on the career ladder, and not work on relationships in the family.
It has been so since ancient times. A man went into the forest to hunt wild animals, he might not return with such a hunt. And his house was waiting for a wife with children, who decorated the ancient caves with leaves, flowers and other improvised materials. Women in antiquity also worked, but their work was much less dangerous and responsible. They collected berries and roots, a little later they took care of the plants near the dwelling. And they supported the fire in the hearth, for the kindling of which in ancient times it was necessary to hire priests.
Now, of course, much has changed. However, the basic principles of the separation of social roles between a man and a woman vary slowly and insignificantly. Men still have a relatively poorly developed emotional part of the soul. This is important in order to survive in a cruel world of competition, to reach heights in a career in conditions far from friendly. Real jungles are now replaced by office jungles, and men are seriously engaged in survival in this world. Ability to maintain self-control, composure in a crisis, conflict or direct opposition to a competitor for men is just as important as for a woman's ability to maintain an emotional climate in the family and at work.
If you sometimes think about why men choose a career, not love, you should learn to take responsibility for the relationship. This does not mean that you need to take the initiative, constantly call and remind yourself. This means that in case of quarrel or conflict, the woman has more ways and means to resolve it. Independently, with the help of friends or a psychologist, you can disassemble the current situation, and to a man come already with well-designed, almost ready solutions.
What should a woman do that feels like she is in the background for the man after work? There are several effective solutions to the problem.
First you need to learn to see the love of a man, knowing exactly how he shows it. If a woman tells her husband that he does not love her, that she does not have enough love, you know what the first thing any man thinks? He begins to look around, looking for eyes to fix or tint. As mentioned above, for a man the expression of love is often expressed in taking care of the material comfort of his woman. In some cases, a man might think that a lady needs more sex. And almost never will he think about the fact that he should talk more about feelings, make compliments or discuss the amorous adventures of common acquaintances.
If you really like talking about feelings, talk about them with your friends. This is another way to solve the problems that arise in a woman whose man chooses a career, not love.
And, finally, if you still need his words of admiration and support as air, do not hesitate to speak directly about it to him. Many men are not so difficult to learn how to compliment, if a woman asks for it. Only talk about this they need directly, avoiding hints and whims about the lack of something about the importance of what a man and does not think.
All of the above solutions to problems are quite universal, and apply to many men. And yet there are situations in which a woman should seek special answers to the question of why a man chooses a career, not love. These are cases of extreme workaholism. If a man lives at work, if he spends a lot of time solving problems for all employees of the company, he probably runs to work from some problems in the family.
The modern rhythm of the working man's life is so saturated that many members of the stronger sex live in constant stress. Because of this, they may have tensions in the family. It's not easy to come home with a smile when you just quarreled with a boss or quarreled with a colleague. Bringing home a bad mood, a man gets conflicts there, and then, in order not to hear reproaches from his wife or children at home, he tries to come there in the dark, while everyone is asleep. And leaves before dawn, while everyone is sleeping. In this situation, of course, it is worth to sound the alarm. We need to find the time to talk with your loved one about what is happening in his life in a calm atmosphere, without any eyes and ears. It is necessary to search again for those points of contact that caused the emergence of relations, to establish a lost connection. By and large, this is always a woman's concern, and it only depends on her whether a man who prefers a love career can find harmony in his life.