Life after sex

Many couples do not know what to do in bed after sex. What will the partner like, and what will cause irritation? What will be interesting, and what will drive us into boredom? And anyway, are there any classes that are suitable for such a moment? We offer several unbeaten options that have been tested not on one dozen pairs.


What not to do.
1) Turn away and fall asleep.
It seems that this theme will never exhaust itself. One has only to hint in the circle of friends that your faithful has a habit of snoring a few minutes after orgasm, as such stories will begin to pour, as if from a cornucopia. To your partner did not think that sex for you - just a substitute for sleeping pills, you should not fall asleep, as soon as you escape from the hot embrace. Give a few minutes to a partner, let him feel that you have something else besides sex. For example, tenderness.
2) Run into the shower.
No, personal hygiene is necessary. Just do not break in the same second as you tear apart from each other. This can push your partner to the idea that sex with him gives you not only pleasant emotions, but also fastidiousness. Take time to at least kiss your beloved or loved one, and then go to the bathroom.
3) Sharply change the subject.
Remember that you just whispered to each other and try to keep this attitude for a while. If immediately after sex you tighten a long song about politics or continue the conversation over dinner, for example, about repair, your partner will not doubtfully doubt whether you noticed what was between you a minute ago and whether you gave stormy sex at least some significance .
4) It happens that sex was not very successful. Maybe I did not like the new pose, maybe there was no orgasm, or maybe just disappeared mood. If you did not orient in the process and could not fix something, you do not have to lie to each other after and pretend that everything was great. If you are connected with something other than sex, then one failure will not spoil the relationship, and you will easily find what to do and how to comfort each other.
5) Do not try to start serious business immediately after a stormy sex. Whether it is cleaning, going to a notary or work, put things off for an hour, no matter how urgent they are. If you plunge into cares too quickly, a pleasant impression of intimacy will pass quickly, and things will be seized with the head. And I do not really want to jump up to fry potatoes or wash dishes. It is much more pleasant to spend a few precious minutes in the arms.

What to do with each other?
1) Repeat.
Why not? Even if the second session was not included in your plans, if it seems that there are no forces and desires completely satisfied, the passion can flare up with renewed vigor. Do not deny yourself this, it is these moments that are remembered for a long time.
2) If you think that the first thing to do after sex is to go to the bathroom, do it together. A joint trip to the shower can be no less pleasant than what just happened between you. In addition, it is in the soul most often there is a repeated sudden passion.
3) The first thing that many couples do right after sex is a joint smoke break. Do not say that this is too useful a lesson, but it is familiar. If you lead a healthy lifestyle, it is easy to replace a cigarette with drinks.
4) You can restore your strength by falling asleep in each other's arms. Gentle kisses, a few pleasant phrases - that's what makes a joint dream pleasant and will save you from possible reproaches and accusations of indifference.
5) You can choose a movie and watch it without getting out of bed. A good movie is always right, it's important to choose the movie that both like. Then you will have something to talk about and with whom to share your impressions.
6) If you are far from romance and do not consider yourself to be too serious people, then for sure you will prefer something unusual. Some couples, just catching their breath, arrange battles with pillows, showering from the shower, tickling, comic chases - but how little it is, how you can entertain each other! The main thing is for you to be well together.

As you can see, there are lots of variants of "bed scenes". If you doubt that you like your partner, do not hesitate to ask a question. The main thing is not to do anything that you would not like yourself. If you think that to see the partner's indifferent back would be offensive, do not turn your back on yourself. If you do not want to hear tiresome talk about politics instead of confessions of love, do not start them. Just do what you think is right and do not forget about the feelings of a loved one, then your other half can not say that after sex you behave rudely or impolite.