In many ways, the decisions that we take are influenced by age features. During his life, a person goes through several crisis stages that are connected with the process of growing up, becoming and developing the personality. Adolescents are more inclined to impulsive actions, but they are easier to adapt to any changes. Mature people are not immune from spontaneous desires to change, especially if there are reasons. But over the years, a person creates a so-called comfort zone, which includes his habits, beliefs, principles, way of life, the manner of communication and the idea of himself and the world. The older a person, the more he fuses with his own world and any changes in the habitual course of life are frightening.
Over time, any pattern by which we live, becomes obsolete if its structure is not flexible enough. We go back to the same problem - running the squirrels in the wheel. Trying to make the slightest changes in his life, a person feels uncomfortable, he feels that he is leaving the race, but he is afraid of why he returns to his usual way of life. Therefore, many only dream of quitting smoking, starting to engage in a port, making a successful career, and Mondays, marked on the calendar as the first day of a new life, are also spent ineptly wasted.
In order to start acting, and not to dream of action, you do not need as much as it seems.
-Determine what you want.
For example, your goal is a new job. In order to start doing something to find it, you need at least a minimal motivation. Describe for yourself, what advantages do you see in the change of work, what will this change bring, why do you need it.
- Identify possible problems.
To obstacles it is better to be ready in advance, it helps to avoid unnecessary fears. For example, you do not know how to look for a new job or you can not terminate an employment contract right now. These are obstacles, but they are quite manageable and not worth that you give up your dream.
-Crop the tails.
Before you rush into the whirlpool with your head, get your affairs in order. Perhaps your personal changes will affect your loved ones, friends and colleagues. Complete important things at work, talk with family, prepare the ground for a new life.
-The week is the beginning of the working week.
But in any case not a new life. In your calendar, all Mondays for the future should not be something special. Then, when you are ready for change, they will happen "here and now," if you do not leave the habit of postponing important decisions for later, nothing will ever change.
-Do not be afraid of your emotions.
Allow yourself to feel what you feel, do not suppress any impulses in yourself. Starting a new business, we always experience different feelings, often contradictory. It can be insecurity and excitement, doubts and determination, fear and the desire to overcome any difficulties.
-Look fear in your eyes.
Fear of change, unpredictability of developments, lack of stability and guarantees are frightening. But this is not the fear that can prevent a determined person from acting. Look into your future: you succumbed to the temptation to leave everything as is and abandoned the chance to become the creator of your success. Will you see a joyful picture that you will see?