First, remember once and for all: remaking a man is an ungrateful, useless and even stupid occupation. This applies to both men in general and to the man of the egoist in particular.
Secondly, living with a male egoist is not much more difficult than with any other man. All men, as well as women, are to some extent selfish. Maybe an inveterate egoist needs more free space and at the same time more attention and does not need to be loaded with his problems.
In general, if you are poorly adapted to life and are not able to cope with elementary problems, then life with a male egoist is contraindicated to you, like high jumps. A man is a selfish egoist for most of his life is busy with himself and you will be tolerated next to him only insofar as you fit into his environment, satisfy his needs and do not load it with your own.
And yet, it would be nice from the very beginning to determine to which type of selfish your faithful relates. Typical egoists are divided into:
- He lives and gives to others;
- He lives, but does not give to others;
- and he does not live and does not give to others.
The most terrible type of egoist is the last. Because in the second case, not so much the egoist does not allow others to live, how many others do not have the opportunity to lead a carefree lifestyle alongside the egoist. The first type is the type of the so-called "reasonable" egoist. For him, he himself, of course, comes first, but he does not reach the people directly. He, simply, does not always consider their opinion if it contradicts his own.
Hence the conclusion: want to live life with a man egoist - do not contradict him, avoid disputes, clarify the relationship. The egoist will still do as he pleases. And least of all it will take care of your convenience. For that he is selfish.
So, exclaim, are you, a man is selfish can not love, be passionate, romantic, reckless? Yes, any number. Only in the first place is he the beloved anyway, and the woman whom he made happy with his attention, admitted to his life, with whom he divided the shelter, will always be in second place. And woe to her if she dares to show discontent.
Therefore, if you agreed to live with a man egoist, learn to be on the sidelines. But if you are used to being on a pedestal and can not part with this habit, then you need to avoid alliance with a man egoist, your marriage is doomed. You will not be able to live happily with a male egoist any less happily anyway, when you put the interests of others above the interests of your spouse.
Living with a male egoist who is able to provide himself and his loved ones with a decent lifestyle can be quite acceptable. Do not forget to admire your spouse (especially in the presence of others), to say how lucky you are with him, but to do it nenazoylivo. Avoid finding out the relationship, you can sometimes cry, all the same the husband is selfish will not notice your tears. And certainly never make a conclusion that he is in some way to blame. So is it worth it to waste energy.
Your main task, if you want to live life with a male egoist, make his life indispensable, so to establish a life so that your favorite selfish person could not even imagine a different life, so that only in your family nest he was well and calmly. Perhaps you will have to endure periods of coldness, inattention, perhaps the betrayal of her husband. But if you want to live with a man, it is with this man, all your life, you must be ready for anything. And by all truths and crooks avoid scandals. The man in general, and the egoist in particular, does not take criticism in his address. Therefore, if you want to remain in a marriage, remember all the recommendations on this score and multiply them by two, dealing with a male egoist.
Thus, we come to a conclusion to live life with a man as an egoist and be quite happy at the same time, but it is quite possible.