Who is a mama's son?
Under the guise of the mother's son can hide adults, strong and seemingly independent men. Often they do not start their family until quite mature, although they can give the impression of a caring, gallant and serious person. Women, meeting such a gentleman, are sure that they finally met their only one, but disappointment comes quite quickly.
Such men are infantile, dependent on someone else's opinion, often aggressive, because they can not fail to understand the absurdity of the situation in which they find themselves. They react painfully to criticism, their actions often lack logic, they seem to make up for something that they missed in their youth - freedom to talk and do things that parents do not allow. Communicate with such men is very difficult.
How to distinguish a man's mama's son?
If a man under 30 years old was not married and lives with his mother, this is a serious reason to think - is everything okay with him? In any case, if doubts crept in, it is worth paying attention to his relationship with his mother.
With an authoritarian mother, especially if she brought up her son alone, the man will always be on the sidelines. He does not take decisions, in fact he does not have the right to vote in the family, all important questions for him are solved by his mother. On the one hand, this hyperope is annoying to a man, and on the other hand - this is the only example of the relationship between a man and a woman that he saw, so it will be very difficult to rebuild. Such a man will give himself up by saying that he will consult with his mother for every occasion, fulfill her desires in the first place, give up her own, if it is important for her.
The other extreme, if a man tries to deal with a situation in which the main in his life is not himself, but his mother. The earlier a man gets out of maternity, the better, but wars for power in adulthood usually do not end well with anything good. A man starts demonstratively to do things for spite of his mother, but not only to her! Subconsciously, he perceives women as a threat to his freedom, as enemies who want to seize power over him. He will never agree with a woman, he will not listen to even the most sensible advice. Relations with such a man do not promise anything good.
Another common type is the eternal child. He can create his own family, but he is completely incapable of it. He will subconsciously look for in his wife what he admired and did not suit his mother. Such an infantile man does not need relations on an equal footing, he needs a strong and powerful woman who can replace his mother in some way. Often such men refuse to work, build a career, help the family, somehow participate in the lives of their loved ones. In fact. Choosing such a man, a woman receives another child, a dependent, whom she will have to carry for her whole life.
Many women are confident that their influence, care and love will be able to remake the mother's son, turn him into a real man. Some succeed, but most remain disappointed. The longer a man was under the influence of his mother, the more firmly formed their relationship and the image of a woman who might be with him. He does not need a weak woman, who will need to patronize or protect. True, even a woman with a strong character is not immune from sudden hysterics, teenage tricks and reproaches. Sometimes it seems that mama's son is stuck in development somewhere about 17 to 20 years.
The only thing you can do is try to talk to such a man heart to heart. To explain that parents are certainly important, but they can not be the focus of attention throughout life, that every person has the right to a personal life without interference of anyone. True, the chances that a man prefers a complex adult life, where it is necessary to bear responsibility for their actions, my mother's tutelage.
Whether such a man is necessary for a woman, whether he desires it - everyone decides for herself. Маменькин the sonny is a type of the man which meets not too and seldom. This is a living example of what grows out of boys, who were raised by too responsible, strict and anxious moms. Perhaps the relationship with such a person will not be the most pleasant, but they help to understand what you really want from men.