But, if it is a marriage in which a man is younger than a woman, how to regard such a relationship? Of course, first you need to make a reservation that no one has the right to climb into someone else's family and discuss what is happening there. For the public, it does not matter how old, older or younger. Discussions of this kind are only for those who live in gray and boring, envy others' happiness and try to entertain themselves somehow.
Condemning the question: a marriage in which a man is younger than a woman, you can only talk about psychology and understanding the situation in the pair itself. First, it all depends on how much the guy is younger than the girl. If this age is within five years and both for twenty, then, often, there is nothing strange and, especially, reprehensible. Still, there are young people who already at the age of twenty have wisdom and life experience. They are reliable and loving for their ladies heart and, in this case, age is absolutely not an indicator.
The situation is slightly different when a woman is older than a man for ten or more years. Here, ladies need to clearly understand what they want from their young man, and, most importantly, how he treats them.
It often happens that in such unequal marriages, a man, in fact, plays the role of a son. Women tend to patronize their loved ones, and they also subconsciously feel responsible for those who are younger than themselves. That is why, in fact, it may turn out that in marriage there is not a husband and wife, but a child and a mother. Such overage sons, often, are infantile and capricious. They can not find decent work for themselves, are engaged in useless creativity and simply beg for money. In fact, this - Alfonso, which is simply convenient to live at someone else's expense. That is why, women should not idealize and justify their loved ones. If she sees that the guy in the open does not want to change his life, achieve something and become really grown-up, it would not hurt to think about the situation. After all, every woman dreams of children, and these guys are extremely negative towards fatherhood. In principle, this is not surprising. Subconsciously and partially consciously, the guy gets used to being the only "child" in the family. The wife tries to do for him all the best, fulfill all the whims and forgive all the flaws. But, when a child appears in the house, the main flow of tenderness and caring will pass to him. And this turn is extremely not pleasant to the husbands-infants. They are openly jealous of the child, they blame for lack of attention to their beloved, and in time, often, just get divorced. The fact is that these men may not be ready to take responsibility for the rest of their lives. They also marry women older than themselves, for someone to always correct from the error and solve all the problems. In addition, such a husband can change and simply live in pleasure, while the wife will pull on her life and the robot.
Also, there are times when women choose husbands younger than themselves to feel young, to feel the taste of life. In fact, this is a common self-deception. If a person is young at heart, he will remain so with his peer. And attempts to join the youth life and seem young at the expense of his partner, looks stupid and ridiculous. In addition, a young man can be unkindly discussing his wife for his eyes and ashamed of her. Such marriages are held only when the lady has sufficient financial capital, which, in fact, interests the young husband. He lives at her expense, but not because of the infantilism, but by calculation. The guy perfectly understands, why this woman loves it and simply uses it. He can play along and depict that love that does not exist. Among these young people there are talented actors. Wives for years do not know that husbands change it, are ashamed and do not take into account the feelings that a woman experiences. In such relationships, of course, there is absolutely nothing positive. Therefore, ladies need a hundred times to think before they marry a handsome young guy, in order to fill his life with new colors.
The two cases described above are probably the most popular situations when unequal marriage is negative. But, of course, this is not the rule. It happens that a young guy can really love a more mature woman. In this case, a marriage in which a man is younger than a woman is quite possible. The main thing is for the lady to see that her man has already grown to such a serious step as marriage. He is trying to achieve something in life and stand firmly on his feet. Still, in relationships with men who are younger than women, you need to be careful not to fall into a love euphoria. Each lady is inclined to idealize her beloved and see in him the best. Do not do this. This can lead to the fact that a woman simply does not notice the true essence of the young man and the real reasons for their marriage. As they say: trust, but check. Therefore, more mature ladies need not to forget about their life experience and wisdom, and apply them in practice. Of course, this is fine when love turns our heads, but, nevertheless, no one wants to fall from heaven to earth. Therefore, before you fully admit the young man into the heart and soul, treat him realistically and if you understand that, despite his age, he is still a real man, then advice to you and love.