So, what are the main mistakes of girls when they meet with guys? Probably, in the first place, it is worth remembering the obsession. Of course, almost any lady likes to patronize her beloved and tries to help him in everything. That's just a lot of men this starts to annoy. The fact that the guys do not feel themselves to be representatives of the strong half of humanity, when they blow off dust particles and perform even what they are not asking. Even if it initially flattered, then, in time, the guys simply can not stand and cease to respect their woman. Every person is an accustomed creature, therefore, sooner or later, even a good young man starts to manipulate the young lady and force her to do everything he says. He was used to the fact that it should be so. Building relationships, you must always remember that you are a woman! And love yourself. Another mistake of the girls, which they admit in their relationships with the guys, is disrespect for themselves. And it manifests itself not only in complexes, but also in relation to its appearance. Often, when the relationship lasts long enough, the girls stop watching themselves. Of course, men love us as we are, but, nevertheless, they want to see a lady next to them, not a housewife in a greasy dressing-gown. I'm not talking about the fact that you have to do hairdressing every day and go home with a hairpin. But do not forget about cosmetics, beautiful clothes and taking care of yourself. One can never completely relax in a relationship, believing that "he is mine forever". This applies to both women and men. Sooner or later, if someone completely waves at himself, interest begins to disappear.
If we talk about other mistakes, we can not forget about jealousy and scandals. Remember one thing: men hate hysterics. That's why, it's never worth to roll scandals on any occasion. Guys value in girls the wisdom and the ability to compromise. If there is any misunderstanding or misunderstanding arises, you should never hit the dishes and shout. The best way out will be to restrain and digest the first emotions. If this happens, you can look at the situation more adequately and solve it peacefully.
Jealousy is another serious reason for disagreement. Men have never been respected by women who love without permission to read sms or messages in contact. Always remember that, without knowing the general picture, but only details, you can draw absolutely wrong conclusions. Also, do not forget that everyone has the right to personal space. Even your boyfriend. Every person always has at least a couple of small secrets. We must accept this and stop constantly suspecting something. If you are sure that a man loves you, then there is no reason to think up for yourself any reasons. If you constantly torment the man with jealousy and suspicion, there is a large percentage of what one day he will tire of making excuses, and he will confirm your guesses in practice, even if earlier, he did not intend to think about it. Guys do not like constant supervision and control. However, all people do not like him. Therefore, one more mistake of women is the desire to completely bind the person to himself. This is manifested in prohibitions to see friends, go to football, drink beer. For the guys - friendship, this is a very important and powerful concept. And, often it happens that if the choice is between a girl and a friend, then choose a friend. Sometimes this act is correct, sometimes not, but the fact is that before a woman decides to limit the communication of her boyfriend, it is necessary to think carefully whether it is worth doing so. Of course, this does not apply to cases when the guy is clearly a dubious company, with which he degrades. If the young man has good friends, you should not forbid them to see and spend time in the men's company. As if the guy did not love you, he has topics for conversation, which he discusses only with men. In this there is nothing strange or offensive, because we are different and there are things that women do not understand. Think for yourself, because there is something that you yourself talk only with friends and would not want to discuss with a guy, no matter how much he was not loved.
If you want the relationship to be long and happy, even though sometimes try to be independent. Of course, the guy is the stone wall that protects and shelters from all kinds of troubles. But, nevertheless, men most appreciate and respect those girls who can be independent and independent. I'm not talking about radical feminism. It's just necessary to try to behave in such a way that the guy knows: you gladly accept his help, but you will not lose yourself.
Relationships always need sparks, in emotional recharge, which is given by both sides. Therefore, do not be a Snow Queen, but, in no case, you do not need to do everything for two. The mistake of women is allowing full matriarchy or patriarchy. In a real strong family democracy should always reign, and all problems should be resolved in discussions, and not with the help of a frying pan and screams that are stronger than ultrasound.
Mistakes of girls when they meet with the guys - it's inability to understand and accept someone else's point of view or the desire to fulfill all the whims and fulfill all that only the devout will think. If a girl learns to find in all the golden mean, and will never be hacked from the shoulder, she can count on the fact that a loved one will stay close for life. The main thing is to love yourself and respect the one to whom you swear in eternal and boundless love. Then you will find real happiness.