Choice of profession
Choosing a profession is a decision of exceptional importance, because this is the way that a person is likely to go for at least the next forty years of life. By the age of 18, few have sufficient maturity to make such decisions. Studying at the university will give an opportunity to understand their own interests. It's not so rare that this process starts with a few "false starts", because the young man needs time to separate his own interests from the expectations of his parents. In the process of creating a career, a young person is often hampered by a lack of confidence that he will succeed. According to some studies, people standing at the very bottom of the career ladder are much more likely to suffer from stress than those who hold managerial positions. For example, a serious stress load. The youngest office employee often experiences considerable nervous tension. Getting started in a company with a strict discipline and a strict schedule of the day is of concern to many.
Financial independence
Many young people for the first time in their lives become financially independent. Since receiving a scholarship and other payments is no longer dependent on the parents, they decide how to spend their own money. Sometimes when you first start working you have to move to another city, which in itself carries a lot of new impressions. However, this happens due to practical difficulties - for example, independent search for housing without assistance from the parents. Higher education creates a habit of relative freedom. The choice of school subjects and even attending lectures often depend entirely on the student. At the current high prices for housing, especially in large cities, buying your own home or apartment often seems like an unattainable goal. For many young people this is feasible only with financial support from relatives. The rupture of personal relationships, the weakening of friendly ties create inevitable difficulties.
New friends
The friendly relations that are tied up during this period often last for life. Entering the university, a young man is among new people who are not related to the family. For the first time it is among those who gathered together because of common interests. The university is an ideal environment for acquaintance with people of your age, connected by common interests. Friends of student years often remain friends for life.
Find a Partner
Many young people choose intimate partners among those with whom they study or work together, but this search can begin with a series of unsuccessful attempts. Some young people have a lot of intimate relationships, others - only a few. Having arranged a private life, young people begin to spend more time with their partner or partner than with friends of their own sex. According to research, most people choose a partner with approximately the same level of education and from the same social environment. This pattern, however, can be influenced by factors such as appearance and financial security. Toward the age of thirty, people often come to reassess their relationship with their parents. Many begin to appreciate the contribution of parents to their lives. For those who are not ready for formalization of relations, civil marriage is an opportunity to combine the advantages of living together with relative personal freedom.
Living together
The process of obtaining an education so "drags" adolescence, that a joint life before marriage becomes a kind of norm. In our time, when the illegality of relations does not lead to social rejection, and the restraining influence of religion is weakened, many young people prefer not to marry at all. The main reason for creating a pair is to protect the offspring at the expense of double care on the part of both parents. However, this is a delicate process, the stability of which is always under threat of possible betrayal, rupture of relations or divorce.
Dependence on parents
After 20 years, many find that they still retain emotional dependence on their parents, especially in difficult life situations. In addition, in the context of rising housing costs, young people have to live longer with their parents or return home after graduation from the university. Even those who live separately, sometimes continue to depend financially on their parents. The development of personality can be regarded as a sequence of certain stages of life, each of which is associated with the emergence of specific psychological problems. Toward the age of 30, most young people become more confident in their judgments and attach less importance to parental approval. They begin to see a person in their mother or father, and visits to their home become less and less time-consuming. Some parents are hard at this alienation. In this period, the relationship between mother and daughter can be especially difficult. Often the mother has her own view on how to live a daughter. The daughter also strives to establish herself in the role of an adult woman.
Birth of children
In most families, the alienation between children and parents is temporary. The appearance of grandchildren often leads to the unification of all three generations, despite the tendency to assimilate the husband into the wife's family. Nevertheless, some grandparents prefer not to waste their time helping in the education of grandchildren. The approaching old age of parents again leads to changes in relations - now their responsibilities go to children. Household and financial difficulties associated with caring for sick parents can be morally, physically and financially exhausting. People are often torn between the needs of their children and their parents.
Continuous development
Human development does not end with the end of childhood and adolescence. A man at the age of 17 to 40 years in his development goes through four stages. In the first period (from 17 to 22 years), he becomes independent of his parents and realizes his "dream". Having established himself in the role of an adult, he begins to "pursue a dream" - builds a career, finds himself a couple, and sometimes - acquires a family. Approximately 28 years, the time of revaluation of values begins, sometimes leading to the conclusion that the goals are unattainable. The last phase (usually coming closer to 40 years) is the time of transition to stability. The life of a woman is less predictable because of childbearing and related changes in professional activity, so it is more difficult for psychologists to judge the existence of such stages in its development. Adult life entails financial difficulties associated with the payment of bills and loans. To avoid high costs arising from self-residence, young people often continue to live with their parents.