Friends are as much a part of everyone's life as family and love. But if the loved one is hostile to all your friends, how to act in such a situation and what could have been the reason for such a relationship?
A foe is an enemy
First of all, it is worth considering the situation, when your guy's behavior is a consequence of logical inferences and analysis of events. That is, if to say simply, he sees and understands that your company is really bad for you or is behaving far not the best way. For example, perhaps your girlfriends do not disdain intimate relationships with many men, and friends often drink alcohol, and then something even worse. If this is the case, then your boyfriend's behavior is completely understandable and logical. He wants to protect you from the influence of bad people. Perhaps you yourself are unconscious of this, but your company is pulling you to the bottom. If this is the case, then do not be offended by the young man and try to resist him. It is best to independently analyze the behavior of your friends, as well as their relationship to other people. Just do not try to justify your company. Look the truth in your eyes. Then you will be able to understand who exactly you are and why your boyfriend resists such a relationship. Most likely, you yourself will be on his side and slowly move away from a bad company.
Jealousy
However, not always men behave similarly only out of good intentions. There are many situations in which the couple quarrel their girls with friends and set them against the company only for mercenary purposes. A very common reason for this behavior is jealousy. A man simply does not want to share his beloved with other people. In vparnih he sees potential boyfriends for his girlfriend, and her friends constantly call stupid hens who will not teach her anything good. At the same time onnikak can not argue his point of view, but still continues to insist that the girl should not communicate with such people. In fact, guys like this are proprietors. They are afraid of letting go and letting people think with their brains, communicate with others and express their opinions. Such men are very complex, but they do not recognize it. They are jealous of every pillar, because in the depths, they consider themselves unworthy of this girl and are afraid that she will leave. Such a man is constantly worried about that friends will say nasty things about him, point out his shortcomings, be afraid that other guys surrounding this girl will be better. Guided solely by a sense of jealousy, young people constantly speak about friends of the girl with a negative, although on the verge of thinking they are more intelligent, beautiful, talented and so on.
Fear control loss
A strong dislike for friends appears among the tyrannical despots. This category of people wants to constantly monitor everything. For them, a woman is a private property, which has no right to express her opinion and act as she pleases. The despot boy is always confident that he is doing the right thing and the girl will do the right things under his control. But if she communicates with her friends, then these people will drive her from the path of the true, or else they will set the opposite. By the way, his thoughts are absolutely correct, as the company, seeing how their friend is suffering in the hands of a despot, will certainly try to somehow enlighten her and save from such a life. But skoreevsego from friends will not work, because despots know how to "brainwash" perfectly. They will necessarily find in each friend some drawbacks and takumelo it will be given, that the girl will begin to seem, as if she communicates with the terrible people. Despots never allow their victims to have close people. If you do not get to change the opinion of friends, they just start to intimidate and beat the girl, if only she does not communicate with her company. For despots, there is nothing strange or terrible in what they do. Such people are always sure of the need for control, which they continuously lead over the victim. A young man can methodically find out in the friends of his half the negative sides and tell her every day about it. The cleverer and more clever the despot, the more difficult it is to notice that he is really setting up his victim against friends.
Belayavarona in the company
Another reason why your boyfriend does not like friends is very banal - he simply was not accepted into his society. He feels like wishing friends superfluous, feels that he is a "white crow" and this irritates him. Therefore, a young man begins to criticize everything in your friends. He does not like their jokes, their style of dress, their behavior. Whatever you tell your friends, the man irritably notes that it's stupid, silly, not funny and wrong. In fact, he is just angry, and maybe even jealous of you, because you were accepted, but he is not. Especially such feelings appear in those cases when your boyfriend has few friends, and you have many, most of them men. The guy does not experience rejection of the female society so seriously, because he already has a girlfriend. In addition, women often try to behave loyally and do not show their real relationship, so as not to offend the girlfriend. And here the guys can scoff and play a trick on the contrary, and express their own opinion on the behavior of your young man who will offend him .
If you see that the situation develops precisely, then you just need to talk with your boyfriend and friends. Explain that they offend you by such behavior. Therefore, one must somehow find reconciliation and common interests, because you are not willing to sacrifice either one or the other. No one forces you to fraternize and swear by eternal friendship. But it would not hurt to show even a little understanding and tolerance to a friend. After all, as a matter of fact, neither your friends nor your boyfriend are bad. Just they are very different people and you, as a person who knows everyone perfectly, you need to try to come up with something yourself to help the guys exhaust the conflict.