How to eliminate the opponent?

If your man is attractive and intelligent, and he, of course, is such, then there must be a girl who will appreciate it except for you. In one, not a beautiful day, you can find out that you have a rival. You yourself will not notice how your boyfriend will begin to enjoy meetings with a colleague, friend or acquaintance. But if you have already paid attention to it, then now your main task is to keep a relationship or family.


First, you need to determine whether a real threat or not. If the rival has already become a lover of your man, the methods of fighting for him either increase, or you just let him go on all four sides. The fact that the change has already taken place is fairly simple, men rarely know how to hide evidence sufficiently well. In addition, it is worth to look at how the man behaves after you find out the truth.

If you know for sure that your boyfriend or husband has not cheated on you, but the girls are flirting with him, soak up. It was not bad to get acquaintances or girlfriends in the camp of the "enemy", but such an opportunity, unfortunately, is not at all. Most often, the opposite happens, gossips tell you that some kind of vertigo has moved to active activities. If you're a clever girl, then first of all calm down and do not panic.

It is at the very beginning of the girls that they make mistakes that can negatively affect their relations with the guy. In no case should one show his awareness. Guys rarely understand the hints of the women, so it is possible that he does not even notice flirting. If you hint that a girl is flirting with him, he may be surprised at all after that to pay attention to her. So be silent, like a partisan is an enemy.

The second mistake is the explanation of the relationship and the scandal. Well, think for yourself, what can you say to your young man who has not even done anything? It is not necessary to say that he gave the prerequisites for flirting or showed his readiness for treason. There are also some people who are difficult to resist, perhaps yours is from such.

And finally, the biggest mistake at this stage is a scandal with his rival. Believe me, this is the right of any woman to flirt with a man. Do not show your weakness to the other's girlfriend. She can only be on hand.

Do not fall and the other extreme - secretly crying one house in the pillow. There is a high risk of closing in on yourself and getting depressed. The most correct option would be to arrange a good shake to your loved one. You've read so much about romantic evenings, lace lingerie, but for some reason I completely forgot that you can use tips in practice. Make your sex life highly variable and frequent, so that the guy will forget about everyone, including about the rival. More after such counter-attacks he will not be completely comforted with others. Be nice and sexy, affectionate and economic.

In addition, it can be a little bit to make him jealous. While he will fight for your attention, it will not be necessary. Dress as a holiday, not too sexy. If you are in a decree or do not work, you can buy a seductive aristocrat and meet the darling always beautiful and well-groomed. Believe me, it's worth it.

The worst option is if the girl was going to be taken away by a friend. It is worth considering also the case if the girlfriend and take away something no one wants, but just loves to flirt with all the contract. And your man, unfortunately, is being led. You will also have to play dishonestly. You are friends, then you know about the shortcomings. Do not openly talk nastiness. Just say, for example, "Svetka is so clever, if it were not for her hair on her legs", etc. Do not fight openly - come up with a good reason to talk about its shortcomings.

Not a bad option will find a guy for his girlfriend, remember, from whom from the former she misses, and try to shift attention to this guy. Perhaps she will get a constant boyfriend and stop hanging out on strangers. In addition, your man will lose interest, if a friend will twiddle about his ex.

What if it's a colleague or just a friend? I'll have to try to make friends with the girl. It's because men lose interest, rarely who can sleep with the one who is friendly with your wife. In addition, you can safely intrigue your man. For example, go with a rival to a meeting, but do not tell what you told your guy. Say, just about everything and mysteriously look at him. A man in such situations is afraid, suddenly he was suspected of flirting.

In addition, it is easier to be friends with a sosopornitsa - you will be aware of its weaknesses and shortcomings. And let her be in the course of your wonderful relationship. Tell her frankly, I'm not one of those women who control a man, especially since we are fine with him. Can you tell me how much your coat costs and how well you are alone. As a rule, after such discussions, the fighting spirit disappears immediately. Moreover, the situation is not excluded that the man succumbed to the temptations of this temptress and at the same time told that she does not love you.

Be sure to think before you act and take advice. Still, there is a risk and at the same time to spoil everything. If you are a nervous nervous girl, and your man is calm and obedient, then do not waste time, zatiotrogram scandal. At the same time, passionate reconciliation will pass, during which the pair will forget about all the virtues of other women.

But if your manatiran, and you are quiet and gentle, then none of the options you will not go. Make friends with a rival, almost does not work, and a girlfriend with a big neckline will attract attention. Decide for yourself whether it is worth fighting for such a man, which is almost impossible to maintain, not just what to settle down. Either you tolerate such an attitude, or go completely and irrevocably, you must respect yourself.

Of course, all tips are good only as long as there is something to fight for. If this is an individual case, then eliminate the opponent. If this begins to repeat and more than once, then get rid of the man.