There is such an unspoken rule: the higher the level of development of living beings, the more prolonged is their childhood and the more helpless these creatures immediately after birth. Experiments of scientists are constantly confirmed in practice, emphasizing the veracity of these statements. But only the first part. If we talk about helplessness, then exactly the same researchers proved the opposite. The human cub is so emotionally wealthy and strong that it seems to us, adults, sometimes unreal. None of us would survive in the conditions in which the infant is and develops. He has to withstand a change in the temperature regime (from 37 ° C it falls to 20-25 ° C), from the aquatic environment passes into the air, in seconds takes possession of the breathing technique, is deprived of an uninterrupted supply of food. And it's all in a few moments! What do you think, is it possible for the weak spiritually and physically to man? ..
Looking for loving hands
Unfortunately, at birth, the crumb suffers, experiencing a sense of endless fall, a severe headache. He is frightened and defenseless at the same time. However, psychologists have proved that this negative can leave no trace in the subconscious as in the process of successful births, and when the child touches the chest of a happy, relaxed, sincerely loving mother! Therefore, in the practice of world obstetrics, natural birth is actively supported. Only 10% of women in labor need the use of stimulant and analgesic medicines. The remaining 90% are able to give birth safely to children with minimal medical intervention, relying on their own strength. During childbirth a woman can not scream, but sing, listen to music, breathe belly ... anything, just to endure unpleasant moments with a positive attitude. After all, her emotions for the baby at that time mean more than his own physical stress. All this is taught by competent specialists at courses for future parents.
In general, the fact that children, desired at conception and during pregnancy, born in soft loving hands, start life with a positive note, has long been proven. They are communicative and curious optimists. They feel safe, and they have a strong connection with their parents. How did it turn out? With the help of psychotherapeutic practices. Many specialists are engaged in reading the so-called "memory of birth", revealing the features and secrets of early childhood. Under hypnosis, a person recalled and reported what happened to him at the time of his birth, and often to the smallest detail, including the thoughts that he had then. They were unexpectedly mature, clear, and feelings - deep.
I choose my mother's voice
The baby hears the mother's voice long before birth, therefore after the birth it is easy to distinguish it from others. One of the tests showed how much it is attached to the voice of the mother. It was conducted by the French psychologist Anthony de Caspe. Babies sucking their mother's breast through a silicone overlay with a pacifier that was connected to a device for measuring sucking speed, he included a tape recording of a fairy tale read by their own mothers and other women. As soon as one of the children heard his native voice, he began to suck faster and more intensively. Two-day studies allowed the scientist to conclude: infants correctly recognize the voices of their mothers (regardless of whether they spoke English or German). Unlike the voices of other women. This means that the crumb is able to catch the rhythm of speech, intonation, change of phonetics and, of course, simply to keep in memory the one, the most beloved and native, the voice that heard before birth. Such an amazing talent needs to be used and developed. The kid is always ready to talk with Mom. You yourself for sure noticed how a 2-3-month-old child answers you with the help of walking and agukaniya. And he not only discovers the possibilities of his voice, but also derives from this dialogue with you an unimaginable pleasure.
Waiting for touch
The conversation of the body becomes communicative long before the child fully develops and learns to control his movements. Putting the baby in the hands of the young pope, and then scrolling through the record at a slow pace, the scientists came to a stunning discovery associated with the characteristics of early childhood: a kid can move in synchronism with an adult. At viewing it was well visible, that the crumb repeated all daddies of movement. As soon as his father bent his head, the child stretched his head towards him. This happened several times. When the right hand of the father moved from his side, the baby's left hand stretched from the opposite - towards. Psychologists could not believe how such synchronism could exist. And they once again urged parents to master the art of bonding - physical contact, an invisible link that allows you to understand the language of the baby from the first days. Bonding can be a good basis for dialogue play, love and emotional intimacy in the future. The child is prepared for this intimacy and expects the same from you. Do not refuse him!
Want to know everything!
The newborn is really a person. He is capable of self-expression. Modern scientific discoveries have confirmed that the infant is a social being. He can communicate, form a close relationship. A child who has recently appeared, is ready to receive new information and, at the slightest of your hints, understands what to do with it. So, if you communicate with the child taking into account the characteristics of the early age of children, you will get as a result a developed personality, a talented and intelligent person. Do not underestimate your little umnyashek - they are much more developed than you think!