Porno: watch or not watch together?

Very interesting topic of pornography: many different pros and cons exist on this score. In this article we will consider, how does the viewing of porn on a couple affect, is it worth to include a forbidden video and watch it together?


Here is one of the opinions: "I think that watching porn two together - it's gone !!!" And the far-fetching of pure water, for "Why do people generally engage in such obscenity, well, do not understand me !?"

So, let's start with the "debriefing". I will quote the rest of the quote: "It may be said that this is the point of view of the complexed. But it is I who absolutely do not want this muck to be in my head and in my head during our sex! Does it give any sense of advancement in sexual relations and awareness of themselves "without complexes" ?? I'm not a prude, but from total discontent, I must go somewhere! And do not involve her in the house and especially the bed! "

Here you should make a reservation popovodu erotica, porn and genre, so to speak, "home" (which applies only to the place of shooting, its quality and placement, yes, yes, that's it) - it's not the same thing. However, we take for the equal the terms of erotica and porn, because there is no strict difference in definitions (especially when you consider that porn also happens to be light and hard and what's more).

Why yes?

First and foremost, it must be said that pornography does not have a negative impact on people who have formed morally, reached social maturity. Therefore, all the pros and cons will only consider this category of people.

So, for people who are in a relationship or in a long relationship leading to an alliance, a joint view of the news materials brings some special piquancy, a tie in relationships and a sexual life. In addition, pornographic films carry some physiological and psychological positive changes, among them:

  1. Elimination of complexes for those who still have them for some reason, which is very important for long-term communication. What about sexual complexes and the discovery of some "new" preferences for your companion?
  2. Porn films are a tool for sexual information for a couple, because the correct attitude to the teaching materials of such a city can raise the sexual life of partners to a new level.

From the psychological side of adding such "debauchery" to the all-sex life makes one feel like a lover or lover of his halves, that to insanity is important in a long relationship.

Surely, many people sometimes want to turn on and see the film-another (especially the erotic content, where "direct action" is not at the very first place) for psychological detente and obtaining some kind of doping for new discoveries.

Again, the excitement received from viewing a quality film is incredible, and pictures and sounds in the head only add dizziness and ideal psychological mood.

Who in his fantasies did not dream of a piece of group sex (just look from the side, too, is considered!)? Or in your thoughts you can do anything? Just the same, no deflection, the effect of presence (in the right way necessary for both) and can add a film of the content of XXX.

Again, you can watch with a sense of humor, appreciating certain moments and even laughing. Is it worth talking about the pleasure obtained when watching together, if the ratio in a pair of porn movies is the same? Joint viewing of porn is a refinement that you need to learn to take and use.

Why not?

However, despite all the positive aspects of this act, there are also pitfalls that make you think before doing it.

While watching the video content of the pair, there may be problems with mutual understanding: the relationship to what you see and hear can be different. Here's another quote: "I will not look any more with my favorite pornography: at one point I laughed so, but he was excited ... and did not understand at all." That's what can wait for two people, differently configured to view the same content.

Or so: "When you look at one, it seems easier, no one sees that you are looking. Awvoyem, strange somehow. " "Strange" is another of the moments that may not allow you to liberate yourself for taking a greedy thought or finding ... Misunderstanding of another or unwillingness to show oneself, to reveal your secret, which can become the highlight of a couple's sexual relations, is what you can lose without trying. Although you need to be very careful / oh, so as not to harm psychologically your / his partner / ru. This risk is very high.

In addition, do not be zealous in this matter, because excessive will be the effect of such films with increased interest in them. This can cause serious negative consequences such as the absence of an "ordinary" desire or the process itself "without extraerotic recharge."

Or, here's another: "It's just that it sometimes drives you harder than the hands of a loved one and gives sex and sometimes a new meaning in your relationship." Everything is good in moderation, but, as stated above, it is a strong emotional dope, but if you do not be at least a little ready for it, it can turn a sexual life into a disaster, not to mention psychological tension or even some kind of dependence.

If you look, then what?

Oddly enough, when you enter a search query like "Porn for viewing together", "Porn classics", "Beautifully-born" and even "Erotica", "Beautiful Sex", you can very rarely find a video of exactly the content that you were looking for.

It will take a lot of time and effort to select (exactly so) the options that would suit you, and content, and motivation, and staging, and quality. Honestly, it's still possible to do this. And do not think that you need to look through the entire track to understand: like you (one) or not.

If, nevertheless, the idea of ​​viewing films of this kind comes spontaneously (and more often than not, with the exception of the desire to surprise your man, surprise him or start a spoor when he comes home from work or the like), be ready to "hold" your desire at the limit for a while, because it will have to spend on finding the right video information.

In addition, there are a lot of materials, but more light content (after all, this is exactly what you need for two) on removable media.

Could there be an alternative?

Sexual mood or dazhenakom can easily be arranged with the help of the topic presented in this article. So, how to diversify family life in less vulgar ways?

  1. You can put the found materials on the browser pages (provided that they are preserved when closing-opening);
  2. Leave the picture of a naked girl on the desktop, for example;
  3. The hard drive is a folder that will scream "Uncover me, here is compromising information," and this can be both video and photo-images;
  4. Leave your favorite phone (on the voice mail, call) a provocative, explicitly revealed sexual nature, a melody or a ringtone. Quite an interesting moment, if only with humor (!) To treat;
  5. Turn on the video when a man just enters the house and looks alone;
  6. Just look at eroticism or light porn where there are no obvious scenes of contact, emm ... genitals.

So all the same: Yes or no?

Well, the question is clearly not their simple. Everything is in relation to this kind of art: anyone that likes it. But if you summarize, then it is worthwhile to say that there are no obvious deviations practicing the like, and even on the contrary: sexuality in its ideal value is enhanced, sexual education improves, trust is increased, emotionally excited in a good sense of this word.

But again, the negative can stun you if you are not ready for the reaction of a man, if you are not close enough or you have little openness in your relationships and desires.

But what can be more harmless and sexual than sharing a porn film?