The problems of marital relations are not only in the material plan, but also in the moral. More and more often the family forgets about family leisure, less often the husband begins to speak beautiful words to his wife, to give her compliments, to present the color not only on March 8, but simply at the behest of the soul. The spouse forgets about his appearance, ceases to praise his wife for the fact that he is such in the world. All this introduces a coldness in the relationship and the husband and wife separate from each other without noticing it. At this moment a terrible thing can happen, the husband can take a walk or drink. If a woman can long tolerate and complain to friends about her husband, then the husband will not complain to friends, he just finds himself where he is loved and heated. After all, the fish is looking, where is deeper, but the man is better.
When children are born, again the question arises of their upbringing. Mom always feels sorry for her child, and my father tries to bring up correctly, i.e. punish for a fault. In order not to become another problem of marital relations, husband and wife should find some kind of compromise, but not in front of the children. Understand who and how he wants to raise children, so that his father does not lose his dignity in the eyes of his children, my mother should never climb into his upbringing. After all, by and large, the husband still remains the head of the family.
One of the unsolved problems at all times is the relationship with mother-in-law and mother-in-law. Well, if everything is fine here, then family relations will prosper. And if not, and someone from mothers who love mothers or mother-in-law will get involved in family relationships. Then we must again look for a way out of the situation, to try to understand the mother-in-law, she, too, has a soul and a heart. She does not want to do anything bad, but she loves her son very much, and her daughter-in-law always does everything wrong. When my mother-in-law starts to speak, you just need to smile at her and agree, agree with everything she says. And try to make friends with her, more often ask advice how best to do this or that. Here's the husband will have a harder time, he and his wife can not understand what she always needs from him, and mother in law and even more so. The mother-in-law is always sorry for her daughter, all the while saying that her husband has fallen into useless. Mother-in-law can only be charmed and prove that he is worthy of her daughter.
It is possible to enumerate many problems of marital relations, the most important thing in all this is to love and appreciate each other and remember that in the registry office you swore to each other to be together in sorrow and in joy, in sickness and health.