So, what to do if you are asking yourself the question: how to make a guy say that he loves you? First, you need to think about why you should make it. After all, we all know that you can say "love" only by your own will. Of course, if this "love" is sincere. But another relationship from a guy, you probably do not need. Of course, to force to say what you want, you can any person, you just need to apply certain leverage. If it's important for you to just hear these words, then you can threaten, put pressure on pity and roll up hysterics.
But if you do not need to force a guy to just say a word, but to hear a real confession from him, then, first, figure out why he does not tell you such necessary words.
Perhaps the fact is that for a guy you are not a loved one. Therefore, even if you are very close to him, he is afraid to say "I love", so as not to generate groundless hopes. In this case, you do not have to make him talk, but make you feel. Agree, even if he can say the necessary words out of pity, you will not be happy about it. Therefore, in such a case it is necessary to decide how to change the situation so that the word "say" equals the word "do".
Each person can fall in love with himself. Just need to come up with the right strategy and find an approach. For this, in the first place, you need to know about the tastes and preferences of a loved one, his character and possible reactions to certain events.
Most likely, you know a young man for a long time, and are friends, and maybe a little more than friends, but still. He is not yet ready for a serious relationship with you. Therefore, you just need to push it to the right decision.
For starters, forget that you are his friend. It should be noted right away that this does not mean stop caring for a guy, do not pay attention to him, and start treating him like an empty place. Firstly, it will be unpleasant and incomprehensible for him, and secondly, it simply looks suspicious. In this case, we are talking about the fact that you have to stop acting like a guy, and, more often than not, it happens when different-sexed people are friends. Therefore, it is necessary to stop drinking beer for a dispute, to discuss girls together, to smoke strong cigarettes and do other things that guys in the men's company are engaged in. He must remember that, first of all, you are a girl, fragile and tender. Therefore, watch your behavior, with gestures, with phrases. Try to control your emotions and do not allow yourself to behave like a brother. You are a woman who needs to be loved and protected. In addition, stop caring for a young man and try to do everything to make him comfortable and comfortable. If a woman always does and decides for herself, a man ceases to feel defender and simply relaxes. You should never allow this to happen. In your relationship, he must be the person who makes decisions and struggles with problems. Of course, you can always help him, suggest something, but only within reasonable limits. It's never worth to take on the whole burden to just make it easier for him. Remember that if a guy is really difficult, you still have no right to help him in everything and solve all problems, otherwise he will either start using it, or relax and turn into a rag. So try to keep yourself in good spirits, no matter how much you do not want to. But at the same time, try to always support and help him, give advice. Let him see that he is not indifferent to you, but he understands that he is not the center of his universe. Especially if it really is.
Also, do not constantly remind him of yourself, call several times a day, write messages. We need to have him write to you and call. Therefore, it is worth "disappearing" from time to time, sometimes not picking up the phone, not responding to messages. Of course, in everything you need to know the measure and not just ignore it. You should interest the guy and make him understand: this girl is not as simple as I thought; she will not come running at the first call and will not do for me everything that I want; she is a beautiful woman and she has a twist; she is not just a friend, she is what I need. If you can achieve such behavior from him, be sure that he will soon show you the feelings that you dreamed about every day. And when this happens, the main thing is not to lose the brand and again not to turn into a person who is ready for it at all. Remember that it is not so difficult to fall out of love and always control yourself at least a little.
If you are not talking about love to a person for whom you really mean a lot, who is your boyfriend and who does not have any friendly feelings for you, then you need to talk and discuss this problem. The fact is that not all men understand the high need of women for romance and small signs of attention. Men think that they show their love material care and do not understand why the ladies are offended. So do not be silent or roll up scandals without explaining anything. With your beloved, you just need to talk and explain that you need to hear the word "love" from his mouth, as he gives strength and understanding of the meaning of life in this world. Remember that romance is not inherent in all men, but all loving people try to make nice to their half, but do not always know how. Therefore, if you explain everything correctly and intelligibly, the young person will take this into account and will try to bring to your life small pleasures with the help of words and attention that you so need to feel happy.