Ancient Greek myth says that the goddess of organized war, strategy and wisdom Athenabyl was born of her father Zeus, and she came out in a very unusual way-out of her head. The ancients also noticed that the future father was becoming "pregnant" in his head. If, in fact, to understand, a man is always haunted by the idea that soon he will become a father, but women, most often, refuse to notice it.
The psychological burden that piles on a woman during pregnancy is so great that a man intuitively takes away part of his experiences so that she can concentrate completely on physiological processes. In such situations, men behave differently, of course, but we can still identify several types of behavior that are directly related to their "pregnant" condition.
Psychotype of male "pregnancy" - The Hermit
"Hermit" tries to ignore the pregnancy of his woman, goes into work with his head, adoma with pleasure spends time with his favorite TV or computer. In his family, it was customary to believe that pregnancy is a deferment. How do you respond better to this behavior? Delicately remind me that the "authorship" you leave behind him and the baby, without being born, is already showing his father's character traits.
Psychotype of male "pregnancy" - Klusha
"Klusha" excessively cares about his woman, tries to protect her even from events useful for the development of the child. At first, such a woman even likes this kind of care, but then she starts annoying. By the end of pregnancy, her husband's anxiety is so increased that it can lead to even a disease. The wife has to be a psychologist, and patiently and easily explain to her man that pregnancy is a normal natural condition, and she is vigilant from her position.
Psychotype of male "pregnancy" - Gulyaka
"Gulyak" wants to walk up a bit, maybe he drinks and does not even show up at home. It is afraid to be "out of topic", become incompetent. Fear that he can not cope with the role of his father, also drives him from home to the society of close friends. You should be patient, this way the husband "carries" your pregnancy. The motto: "Aware, it means - armed" - is suitable in this situation for you as much as you can.
Regardless of which psychotype of "pregnancy" your man is, there is a universal means - to train him, to prepare him for the role of father. Men are conservative in nature, so the husband does not immediately agree to participate with you in the process of prenatal education. Talk about the lessons fun and interesting, so he wants to know more, ask them to hold and wait for you not in the corridor, but in the classroom where the classes are going.
Scientists call this state of man "syndrome of empathy." The future of the pope may even change the number of male hormones - so often the masculine survivors. You, as the keeper of the hearth, should remember this forever. Only in this way you will be able to maintain a trusting relationship with your husband and get to know him better.
Be happy!