We will discuss in advance that harmony of the type "he does not want, but I do not need", this is not our option. We will consider the harmony of people who love each other, who are interested together.
So, let's look at what to do in order to achieve harmony with a man.
Love.
First of all, it is certainly mutual love, without it, how could you not create wonderful harmonious relations. How to come to love we will not consider, because over the answer, this question mankind beats many millennia and so far without results.
Common interests.
Also, for harmony with a man, commonality of views is important, you should have common interests, something that you can do together. If it does not, then try to interest him with what's interesting to you. Or yourself be interested in what is interesting to him. From this factor, the following factor is a personal space.
Personal space.
The presence of personal space, a very important factor, it must be taken into account when you will find common interests with a man. After all, you can not always do everything together, so you will very soon be fed up with each other. Therefore, the search for common interests must be done delicately. Trying not to seriously touch the personal space of a person, believe me, sooner or later a man will reveal himself, but this takes time. In this case, it is necessary to discuss, so that your man does not seek to limit you excessively.
Speak.
To achieve harmony in a relationship, you must share an important one for you with each other. If you do not like something in a man or vice versa, you are something from something. Tell him. If you have problems at work, friends, share it with him. He, too, should not accumulate in himself his important emotions, thoughts and emotions.
Listen.
This results from the previous paragraph, if you talk with each other, you must also be able to listen. Even if sometimes the topic is not very close to you and understandable. Try to support each other and listen. After all, what you say is very important to you for both of you.
Forgive.
People are not perfect, and that's all. So for harmony with a man, you need to be able to forgive, you need it, and he has your faults. After all, a person must be loved in full, along with his shortcomings and virtues.
Mutual respect.
In most cases, the basis of these marital relations (apart from love of course) is mutual respect of each other as a person. And this should not depend on social status, financial status and other qualities. The husband the academician should respect his wife a housewife, and the wife of a business lady should respect her husband, a simple engineer. Only in this case there can be harmony between the spouses.
Inner harmony.
And, finally, the last, but not the least. For harmony external (with a man, with the world, with relatives) with anyone, you need to achieve inner harmony, with yourself. After all, only a person who is harmonious internally, can build a harmonious relationship with someone.
To all of the above, you can add that to build harmony with a man. The work of both is needed, one can not come to this harmony itself. It can be achieved only if we go together to this goal. So from a man you need the same return as you do.