If a man likes to drag time

Said, then did. Such a person can be proud of, because decisiveness is an inalienable quality of every real man. But how to be with those who said and then, without any remorse, postponed for later? Time is moving forward, and it's like a "recumbent stone", which pulls this very time and does not want to move ...


Of course, if your faithful is not independent to such a degree that without your permission can not eat, in this case everything is clear. The ancestor influence in early childhood, plus this type of temperament. He himself is inert and indecisive to the village, and there is still a strict mother with her arguments, which has hammered into my head that before anything can be done, it is necessary to ask for permission. Such children, and eventually men, always obedient and flexible, they are always ready to wait for advice and orders from someone. They flatly do not want to change their lives and even its individual moments, which they do not like. A partner takemuzhchiny, as a rule, find an authoritative woman, who for one hundred years knows what is kchemu and how to actually live. The truth is still a contentious issue, as to who is the first to find whom in such a pair.

But either fortunately, or vice versa, there are not so many such men. Nature took care that the main part of the male population possessed the qualities necessary to perform the main functions - the development of a new and conservation of the population. Therefore, for the most part, representatives of a strong polonaporist are independent and are always ready to change something in their lives. But all these qualities manifest themselves selectively. For example, in order to change the car (to realize how important it is to take a loan, bypass all the salons, sell the old one and choose a new one), the average man needs a couple of weeks.

And to nail in the room a picture chosen by a loved one, this can take not only whole months, but gems. In some families, such paintings are transmitted from generation to generation in a folded or boxed form.

But still it is not necessary to blame men for being egoists. As psychologists tell us, in any situation, men have their arguments and reasons for categorically ignoring and not doing what they are asked to do.

If he pulls the offer with his hands from the heart

As a rule, the wedding and the creation of a family are the prerogative of the subhugation, for such is their component of real happiness and the object of dreams even during childhood. Men have always married according to necessity, based on generally accepted stereotypes and traditions.

Do not be surprised if your gentleman is pulling with a proposal, because this is purely our desire, to see the treasured ring on the ring finger. It is worthwhile to note the fact that the more developed a society, the less men tend to delay and not to marry. Life is already arranged, but there's nothing to talk about sex. So do not look for close ways to the heart of a man, let him just afraid to lose.

What to do . It must be done so that it's "impossible otherwise"! In order to take root in the mind, the thought that something significant and good will appear in his life. That's just unlikely in our time, this most meaningful can become sex. Therefore, you need to approach the other side. Demonstrate your freedom, broad interests and aspiration for independence. Leave more often than he wants, say less than he expects. Men are concerned and makes you think. And here is the time to direct his thoughts in the right direction. Tell me about marriage, but not as an obligation, but as entertainment. And then get away from the topic without letting him finish. Here he himself must understand what to do.

If he pulls the baby

Men like to pull the fact of replenishment of the family, because they are afraid. Psychoanalysts believe that a child for a man is associated with age. Probably too literally they perceive the expression "our shift". Of course, not all men can say it aloud and generally understand their unwillingness to have a child. Therefore, excuses may be different. The true desire to have a child with a man appears after the passage of the age crisis of the "middle of life" - about 35-40 years.

What to do . Wait, if now your partner is slightly over 30, if it is less - do not pull. So nothing is better than deception, women have not yet come up with. Moreover, men are often glad that this "happened." After all, this greatly reduces their peredrazmyshleniya.

If he pulls with repairs

All men love to buy construction tools. They bring it home and look at it, then "drive in a couple of nails" and put everything into the far corner. Take out only when rolling sadness, but not when it is necessary. Men are not interested in minor repairs.

What to do . Accumulate business and early in the morning, on the day off, give out their list. And then, within a few days, praise him for it. Just do not blame him, this you will not achieve anything.

If he pulls with work

He does not try to earn decent money. Most likely he is a reliable person. To do something, he needs a lot of time to think and believe that he is doing the right thing. Though the reason can be and directly opposite - имлень.

What to do . I'll have to study the psihopodiagnostics and find out the real reasons for this behavior. And to act on the situation and strictly individually. I'm not sure - make sure that everything will turn out. It's lazy - it's time to put pressure on the conscience. Anyway, the success of a man depends on the woman that is next to him.

If he pulls a joint

This is already a diagnosis. If a person postpones leave for more than two years, then the matter is most likely in workaholism. And this is serious - psychologists have long come to the conclusion that severe cases also just need to be treated, like other forms of dependence.

Men are prone to frustration more often than women, and in some cases can not do anything except work. Rest in this case tantamount to a torture. The person feels broken and in every possible way reaches for work.

What to do . Organize the release compulsorily. Let it be not two weeks, but several days. Udartena that just do not want to go alone. By the way, the dependent ones are easier to carry out the rest, if this is work. Help your friends choose a dacha, go on a sports gathering, etc. It's not like resting, but it will bring tangible benefits.

If he pulls with a talk

If the topic of the conversation is not pleasant, and the alleged interlocutor is a woman, then men like to postpone the conversation for a long time. In fact, it may not take place at all. Such situations are estimated by a man as extremely heavy. Against women's reproaches and reproaches they do not have receptions.

What to do . Nothing. You do not need to constantly fiddle with your questions - it's better from this nebudet. He simply begins to dodge and leave the topic in every possible way. And you eventually become a woman, a conversation with which he is unhappy. Although it is very difficult to remain silent, but the result is worth it: it will always be on your side. And there look and vsezreshestitsya itself! Remember, all women as children, why not take advantage of this!