Oh, these men ... We, women, are incredibly difficult and wise, and the heart to understand and comprehend them, science is really powerless logic. How can you understand these creations of God, created in the image and likeness of which a woman was fashioned from the ribs?
And if you look from a purely biological point of view, then the man is none other than the male of the person opposite to the woman on the biological sex. The main thing is to determine in time, by whom at the given time the man is a "likeness" of the ideal, beloved or still just a male of the Homo Sapiens species.
Having determined correctly who is in front of you, you will easily cope with it. It does not mean the struggle for survival in a certain territory, but the ability to find a common language with this creation and to establish at least some "common territory". It is necessary to do this before going head-to-head to marry a beloved, but such an incomprehensible person.
Whether we like it or not, men make up a large part of our society.
Therefore, to understand a man, whether in the mind, whether in the heart, or with the help of the logic of science - is extremely important. Personally, I think so, although it is believed that men are somewhat less than women. But we face them all the time - at home, at work, on the street, in transport ... Who are they, our men? Fathers, brothers, husbands, sons, lovers, friends ... All these are close people, whose fate we care about, and relations with which are very, very important for us. And since the relationship, in my deep conviction, should bring only positive emotions, it is important to build them correctly, and this is only possible for a woman, a man is unlikely to bother about it.
Not every woman can boast that she and her men have a great relationship. After all, as they say, "the man can not understand the mind, the science is powerless logic". To build relationships with the opposite sex is really a whole science, and it is with reason and logic, common sense, to approach your man's understanding, otherwise love will be powerless. But since there is no time to look at our books, there are too many cases, and not all the questions there can be found answers, we have to rely solely on our life experience.
And it's necessary to proceed from the fact that every person - individuality and every concrete case - is every concrete case. A woman should, no, just have to, be wise. It's not easy for us to give this wisdom, but it is sharpened by communication with men, for which we should say a big and heartfelt thank you. You can not take offense at men, get angry, and so on, you need to love them.
I imagine, as now many of you, my dear fellow tribesmen, jumped on the spot. How is it to love them? For what? After all, they are such-and-so bad and they all do not how you want. But in any case, the relationship should be benevolent. After all, if you think about why we need men? Definitely, not to complicate, already strained, our lives.
If the relationship can be built correctly, then we, women, will live much easier and more joyful. In general, the ability to find a common language is inherent in a reasonable person. And if a person is of interest to us, then we will get out of the skin, but we will show ourselves on the best side, is not it?
From this it follows that in order to reach an understanding with a man, he should like us, or better yet - like very much. That is why at the very beginning of relations we do not see the shortcomings of our chosen one. They say that love is blind ... Well, maybe someone does it, for example, from inexperienced young ladies, but an experienced woman will always weigh the pros and cons, and only then will they "hump" a man.
The very process of attracting the attention of the opposite sex is complicated, but, as a rule, it is better to act on the situation. Men - they are all different and each needs its own special approach, and the motto is "the man can not understand the mind, the science is powerless logic", in fact it is suitable only for dreamers who are looking for and can not find their "princes" in any way.
For a woman, her spiritual state is too important, so if you feel comfortable with a man who has attracted you, then this is already half the success. It is difficult for every man to understand a woman. And if you have got such a "copy" that feels and can explain even half of your experiences - rejoice. And when you celebrate this fact, you can easily marry or just build a very long relationship.
Another myth that spoils our lives is the representation of men about beauty. Both advertising and family impose on us the idea that to Him, the chosen one, beauty is most important. TV and magazines are telling us how to be irresistible and perfect. But at the same time, men themselves are interested, it turns out, not written beauties, but women who are interested in them. Although, little is believed in this, to be honest.
Definitely, if we love a person and he is important to us, we can forgive him for all his mistakes and mistakes. I would like to be forgiven for our cute little shortcomings.