According to psychologists, the main irritant for a man, strangely enough, is a woman. And it's not just the behavior of women, but the fact that they have a special talent, ask the wrong questions at the wrong time. The most simple and harmless question asked by a woman, especially at the wrong time, can cause an explosion of negative emotions in a man. On this topic, the scientists carried out a study, which resulted in the identification of the main questions-stimuli. They should be asked only for men with a high threshold of psychological susceptibility.
Question one: Gdets?
This question automatically breaks off every woman's mouth when she calls her beloved. Almost any telephone conversation with her husband begins with this question. On men, he produces the same action that the bull has a red rag. But since calls the beloved woman, the man has to maintain his irritation and discontent, which only aggravates the situation. As a result of incredible efforts, the woman remains ignorant of the effect, and every time everything repeats again. Of course, you can understand and representatives of the beautiful half of humanity, asking this question, they show their concern, but the man automatically perceives as excessive control.
Question two: Tyumen love?
Most often this issue is perceived by a man as a crime, especially if he has to hear it often enough. If you turn to statistics, only 3% of men are ready every day to repeat their women that they love them, while others think that this is the more they prefer to prove their attitude with actions, not with words. So, before your mouth drops once again, think about how your man will react to it. However, the nature of a woman is such that she wants from time to time, not only to see the result of the relationship to the neemuzhchina, but also to hear that she is loved. If you belong to such tyupuzhenshin, and you need a soundtrack, you'll have to wriggle out. Create a romantic atmosphere for your man as often as possible, go out to the nature, arrange romantic dinners, invite him, for example, a walk, and he does not notice how without leading questions, will start telling you the words of love.
Question three: What are you thinking about now?
In this case, the problem is not so much on the issue itself, how many that women choose for him are completely unsuitable moments. For example, they voice it, while watching the final match of the Champions League, or the NHL, or any other sporting event that is important to her beloved man. Why give reasons for abuse, or for not pleasant thoughts in your address? In addition, what to consider when asking this question, think about, and you yourself always want to share with others and even those close to your thoughts? So it may have a sense to give your man the opportunity to have something personally, at least thoughts that he keeps to himself.
Question three: Is my lipstick scorched? (there can be many variations of this question)
Such a question will not irritate a man only if he is a stylist or a make-up artist. All other representatives of the stronger sex are so far from nuances of evening or any other make-up that it is pointless to ask them such questions, tk. they will cause only acrimony.
Question four: Darling, I'm ugly?
If you do not abuse this question, and use it, you can not hear a compliment in your address as it is, there is no criticism in it. But everything is fine in moderation, because sooner or later, the man will simply get tired of this question and instead of the reaction you expect, his irritation will only be provoked. As already mentioned above, men prefer to exercise their attitude through actions. So if he thought you were not beautiful enough, he simply would not be with you.
The presented list is by no means a complete list of questions - irritants, because along with the generally accepted, everyone has something of their own, including that which causes irritation. Just pay attention to how and what the man answers you to the questions asked. If the answers are short and monosyllabic, then he does not want to talk to either you or the topic, which is a serious reason to think whether you are all right in the relationship. After all, in the absence of common topics for conversation, the relationship can not be built.