What could be more beautiful , after a year, to see in your child all that you wanted to bring up initially. To see in him a strong personality, a just man, a caring son (daughter), a loving father (mother), an attentive husband (wife). This is the ideal that all parents want to see. The fruit of love and correct education means that life has not been lived in vain. Happiness for parents, see your child as a satisfied person. But in order to achieve a positive result, it is necessary to work hard, daily to give oneself for the benefit of your child.
In difficult moments , it happens that adults start complaining, "Well, when will we live for ourselves?". I dare say that if a couple decides to have a baby, after the appearance of the baby, the life of the husband and wife ends. The era of parents begins. And then you can not take the day off any more, go on vacation and not think about anything (even if the child has a nanny, the mother always worries about her baby). Now you live for children and for their sake. No more words "I" "me" "want" "mine", there are words "we" "us" "ours". And that's fine. It's not even that in old age someone will give water, but that you are not alone in this vast world, in the endless universe you have a native person or several. Blood will never give birth and never fall out of love. In a difficult minute, he will extend a helping hand. This is your reliable support and support.
What must be done to reach first the child's heart, then to the youthful. Educate positive qualities can only be love, understanding, respect, attention. Learn to listen not only to adult conversations, but also what the child says. After all, children are like an open book that you just need to learn to read. In them there is not a drop of intrigue, anger, hatred. They are adults, they bring up and create such feelings and thoughts in children's minds. So, somewhere they did not finish watching, did not pay proper attention, they left everything on their own accord.
Children like flowers , if you do not care for them, then weed will grow up, and if you surround with care, then a decent person will come to life.
No matter how much you love your child, love should never be intrusive. Just a son (daughter), you should know that if he (she) needs help, mom and dad will always be there, and they will do everything to support. In the rest, it is better to stick to ostentatious detachment, give some freedom to a teenager, let him make his own decision. Let him make mistakes, even those about which he will later regret. This will force you to think carefully the next time before making a final decision. In such moments, it is important that the child feels, if he stretches out his hand, then the parents will be there. Stuffing "bumps", a natural process that allows you to prepare adolescents for adulthood. Children should not enter into adulthood helpless and confused.
They talk a lot about the beauty that will save the world . And in this case, "love, will save the relationship." And this, however, love forgives everything, understands, will survive. Neither time, nor distance, nor trouble can not kill this feeling. Parental love is blind, whoever the child becomes, the heart of the father, and mothers will always fight in unison with the heart of their child.