Afraid that your body will change beyond recognition, the career will end, everything will end ... everything! Such thoughts do not mean that you do not love your baby. On the contrary! Unlike those who are in euphoria, you represent the whole measure of responsibility for the child. One hundred percent realize that in your life everything will become different - from your relationship with your beloved, to culinary preferences. Perfectly you understand, that it is necessary to care of a crumb constantly. And often to the detriment of many other interests ... The theme of today's article is "Relations in the family after the birth of a child", it provides detailed information that will help women learn the basics of the relationship after the birth of the baby.
Believe me, your experiences are absolutely normal. Anxiety will sooner or later pass. In the life of every future mother, a moment comes when all the difficulties of pregnancy are compensated by one overwhelming feeling. Someone with this instant will be the first stirring of the baby. And someone will imbued with motherhood, having made the first ultrasound and seeing a tiny leg ... These are the stages behind, and you still do not feel happiness? Do not worry. Bad mothers do not read magazines for parents. And we'll show you how to love your pregnancy. Who said that you can stop caring for yourself? The times when future mothers were supposed to wear something formless, fortunately, were left in the past. Now a large selection of clothes for every taste. Taboo for you, perhaps, only very high heels. Look at yourself in the mirror. You're as good as ever! It's not for nothing that artists of all time and people like to portray future mothers. The pregnant is beautiful! This applies to you personally. You're all shining!
freedom
You do not need to become a hen. Mom, who requires a laptop and a mobile phone in the hospital, is by no means an exception to the rules. The recommendations of psychologists are unequivocal: if you do not think your existence without work, do not radically change life in anticipation of the baby. After all, he needs, above all, a happy mother. Was going to have a rest in Egypt? So what's the problem? Feel free to go! Is there a new project at work? So finish! Pregnancy does not impose any restrictions on you. Is that one thing: do not do anything unpleasant for yourself. Of course, there can be no talk about cigarettes and alcohol. They will have to be abandoned. But is there any minus in this? Only pluses!
Relations with the future pope
Oh, this is your sore spot. It seems to you that a loved one absolutely does not feel the importance of what is happening now in your family. Oh, how wrong you are! After all, men are not inclined to manifest their true feelings. And the apparent callousness of her husband is deceptive. Now he is rethinking his life priorities (as, indeed, you). And after the birth of the baby will be the best daddy in the world. Still you, probably, are afraid of loss of sex appeal. A favorite seems to confirm your fears: sex less and less. The behavior of the husband is well founded - he is afraid to harm the crumb! And he treats you more like a future mother, rather than as an object of desire. There is even such a term - "Madonna syndrome". The phrase itself speaks for itself! Does this mean that the husband has become less loving? Yes, he simply idolizes your body! However, it does not make it any easier for you. After all, during pregnancy, the sex drive increases in women. It's time to love! And he does not want to ... Talk to your spouse. Tell him about your desires. Maybe there is no Madonna syndrome and no? And your husband just does not know what you need and can? This also happens: a man thinks that during pregnancy a woman is not up to sex. Convince him! And not just words. There are many ways: aromas, relaxing massage ... A joint view of beautiful erotica? Why not! But most importantly - believe in your attractiveness. Sincerely!
Take a pen, paper and write down what is pleasant in your position. No, it is not necessary to represent the future baby, if the very thought of motherhood is still frightening. Think about the benefits of pregnancy for you personally. Write ... one hundred sentences. A great number! Does this seem like an impossible task? We'll start, and your business is to continue. What is written on paper, acquires a special meaning, materializes. For example, you can start the letter this way: "I became the center of attention. All the relatives care about me. Yesterday my husband bought a wonderful plaid of soft wool ... I feel that I can do anything: read, sing under karaoke, invent recipes for fantastic dishes ... And if I'm tired, no one forbids me just to sleep ... All the world has become different. Have I ever been able to appreciate all the charm of the aroma of coffee with milk? Earlier - coffee as coffee, now - a whole bunch of delicious smells ... And how nice it is when my husband serves coffee in bed! He has done this before, but now it has become a special symbol of love. And the symbols are so important! I'm happy ... "Now we know how the relationship in the family after the birth of a child can be changeable.