But what is guided by a woman when choosing a man and how to understand if a man is suitable for a woman?
When choosing their chosen one, women are always very careful and careful. Every woman wants to have a man with whom she can always rely, who can trust, next to whom she will feel protected and loved. Women love attentive, tender, caring men, and can not stand insensitive, narcissistic and selfish. Also an important indicator is how much the man is accurate, how he behaves, what he says.
First and foremost, the woman is the mother and the keeper of the home, therefore in the subconsciousness of the woman, the man is none other than the continuer of the family, as a result, the choice of the man is usually done at a subconscious level. This is influenced by many factors related to the life of a woman and her previous experience. Women often say that they like a certain type of men. This means that it is this type of men that she considers the most suitable for the continuation of her kind. Some women think that the most beautiful men are the most suitable for this role, others are the smartest, others are the most cheerful, etc. Nevertheless, sometimes the choice of a life partner only at the biological level is not entirely successful and often leads to a break relations, because of great importance are common values, interests, joint conduct of time, etc. After an unsuccessful choice of a partner for biological criteria, a woman "opens her eyes", passes that feeling of love and she realizes that the man was completely n such as she had a "draw", and that desire on a subconscious level is not the one and only criterion for selection.
Many girls put the same question: "How to understand whether a man is suitable for a woman"? It should be noted that psychological tests on this topic are mainly based on socio-psychological criteria, because thanks to them one can understand whether a man is suitable for a woman. If we talk about the social criteria, it means the financial independence of men, social status, purpose in life, worldview, attitude to the family. As for psychological criteria, it is compatibility on an emotional level, a sense of respect, caring, understanding each other. Therefore, it is very important in relationships that a man suits a woman both for social and psychological criteria.
Understand that a man is suitable for a woman can also by his behavior and attitude towards her. Does he respect her point of view, take care of her, and so on. It is important whether a woman feels comfortable in the presence of this man, what she thinks about him, as she says. If in her behavior or voice slip notes of irritation or disrespect, then this man does not suit her anymore. The future partner should cause the woman only the best and positive emotions, overwhelming feeling of pleasure and happiness from a meeting with this person.
Sometimes girls, having met some time with a guy or even having lived with him in a civil marriage, make hasty conclusions that it is this man who is worthy to be the husband and the father of her children. At the same time, they do not always pay attention to some problems and shortcomings in the relationship, seeming at first glance trivia. According to psychologists, it is this inattention that subsequently leads to the dissolution of marriages. It should be remembered that the character of a person is formed at the age of up to three years. And if a man badly and disrespectfully treated a woman before marriage, then after it it will manifest itself in an even more crude form.
If you think about marriage, take into account all factors and nuances. What a man was like before, whether he gave you presents, took care of you, or he liked to spend time in noisy companies without your presence, changed you, could raise your hand, etc. Weigh up the pros and cons, can you reconcile with all its minuses and live with it all your life. Undoubtedly, in the relationship you also need to listen to what your heart is saying, but "lose your head" is also not worth it. Love passions are quick and good if they are replaced by a feeling of strong mutual love, not disappointment and resentment.
If a woman chooses a man who suits her ideally, then the feeling of love will only grow and intensify. After all, love is based on feelings, intimacy, common interests, trust, respect.