In order to understand the ring as a gift - to the engagement before the wedding, you need to soberly assess the situation, the words and behavior of the young man.
So, what does this gesture mean? Firstly, let's see, for what reason, a man gives a ring? Perhaps he just knows that any ring is the best gift for you and wants to make it pleasant, but completely without the overtones that you dream about. Remember that a guy treats such gifts is much easier. If he knows that you like such trinkets, then this gift with the same thoughts, which would present a gift or an earring or a bracelet. If the guy gave the ring for his birthday and did not say a word about what he wants to be with you for the rest of his life, most likely he just made a nice present for the name-day and nothing more. Of course, a loving girl really wants that it was an engagement. But, do not rush. If a man has made you such an expensive and beautiful gift, it means that you are so far from him. Men give women things from precious metals only when they treat them very seriously. Perhaps this is not an engagement, but, nevertheless, you clearly occupy a special place in his life. Therefore, the main thing is not to scare the young man. In no case do not you dare to hint to him that the ring says that "threatened" with the wedding. Believe me, by such behavior you will lead him into a stupor and scare you away. When a man has a desire to marry someone, he thinks about it for a long time and only then makes a decision. In this case, the guy should never be pressured. Pressure for men - worse than screaming and hysterics. It seems to them that in this way, a woman tries to take away their freedom from them. And after all, marriage, in fact, it is also a restriction of freedom. At least, many men think so. And if they do not think, then there will always be a friend nearby who will tell him how bad it is to be married and how much it restricts freedom. Unfortunately, the guys are very afraid to take this responsible decision and marry a man they love. And, the more fear in a person, the more it seems to him that everyone is trying to force him to do something and take something from him. Therefore, if the guy gave the ring as a gift, thank him from the bottom of the heart and say that you are very pleased, but do not even think about hinting at his marriage. In time, he will reach this decision. And, for now, let him just know that you really love and appreciate him. If you want to thank a young man for such a pleasant surprise, then, on his birthday or on the occasion of some significant date, you can also give him an expensive gift. Of course, this need not necessarily be a ring, as many men do not wear such ornaments at all. But, it could be a chain, a bracelet, a watch, an expensive perfume, or just something that he wanted for a long time, but for whatever reason he could not afford. By making such gifts, you emphasize a special attitude to the guy and he consciously and subconsciously notes for himself that this girl knows what he wants and loves, tries to make him nice and thinks not only about his desires, but also about his preferences .
But, it may be that the young man did not just give you a ring, but gave it to him, saying that you are his very own and beloved and he is very glad that you are together. Can such words be regarded as a proposal? Most likely, gifts accompanied by such speeches can be regarded as a warning that soon the guy will ask for your hand and heart. Speaking such words, he subconsciously is ready to be with you always together, but he is consciously still tormented by some of the fears and, therefore, the guy does not yet say the most important thing. But, if he puts the ring on your finger and at the same time speaks of his infinite love, then you can quietly rejoice that soon you will get married. Although, again, he does not need to hint at anything and push him towards the goal. He will figure it out himself. If a young man recognizes that you are the meaning of his life, then he is almost ready to go with you all the way of life.
By the way, pay attention to what kind of celebration such a gift was made. If, this is the Day of All Lovers, or some kind of your personal date, it means that his act is a kind of rehearsal of the offer to marry. Even if he does not realize this, the subconscious chooses precisely these dates, because he wants to show not just love, but also serious intentions connected with it.
Well and in what cases the girl can be absolutely sure that the ring is an engagement before the wedding? Well, probably, it happens when she gets on a romantic date, a young man kneels, gives flowers, gives a ring, as a gift for an engagement, and asks about whether she wants to become his wife. In this case, there is nothing to doubt. Everything is clear and clear, like a day. So the rings are given only in order to soon take your beloved woman to the registrar's office and therefore, soon, a joyous commotion will begin before the wedding.
A loving lady always wants to happen exactly what was said in the article last. But, for this to happen, one should never drive horses. Let me remind you that rings are not given to strangers and girls, with whom a man is not connected by a serious relationship. Still, subconsciously, the guy understands that the ring is a symbol. And even if he does not put in the gift the meaning that you want to see, he still understands that this is not just a trinket, but something more. Therefore, having received a ring as a gift, you can rejoice that you are a very dear, beloved and valuable woman in your life for your young man.