Before you "go hunting," you need to decide what kind of man you need. Take a piece of paper, divide into two parts, one write down what character traits, habits, descriptions of appearance you like, in the other, which do not. So you get some male image. Most likely, men with such a set of qualities with you yet, but he will certainly appear. So, you suddenly get to know a bachelor, and gradually your relationship grows into more than friendly. You are sure that this is the man of your dreams, but for some reason he hesitates with a proposal of the hand and heart.
Seducing a bachelor and leading him to a serious relationship should be gradual, unobtrusive, and then scare away. Men, according to statistics, and so little, but if you miss the one who was so expected. Keep in mind that from the first minutes of communication with a bachelor you begin to pass the test for compatibility with his lifestyle. The modern bachelor is quite happy with the way he lives. He has enough time to communicate with men and women. He does not experience any material difficulties, he does not experience problems with housekeeping and cooking. Showing obvious interest to you, he will start to watch you-will not you make a coup in his beautiful life.
To seduce a bachelor, you will have to become a real actress. Common interests can bring you closer together. A bachelor, they usually have a lot, he cherishes them and tries not to advertise. Be observant and try to notice all the "little things", because they will help you choose the right "keys". Once in his apartment, in any case, do not criticize the situation, repair, and do not give advice on how to make it more comfortable. A bachelor is likely to take your cues as an encroachment on his territory, which he will not allow to live with a stranger and all your efforts will be meaningless.
Do not try to show the bachelor that he is already your man. Do not use his things at all, do not even sit in his car with the confidence that he will definitely take you where you want. To lead to a serious relationship with a committed bachelor, you need to know his weaknesses, his habits, his views on life, what he particularly values and despises. Do not persuade him to introduce you to friends and parents. Build such relationships so as not to become the destructive storm of his bachelor world, but at the same time not to be a shadow, otherwise you will not be considered at all.
Perhaps, he believes that serious relationships will violate his habitual way of life, and delay this moment. Now the bachelor does everything as he wants, and in a joint life he will have to reckon with the opinion of another person. Do not impose yourself if he goes to a bachelor party, do not ask him to call you often. Better ask him to call when you have agreed. Do not pretend to finance him. If he feels that his money is already to some extent yours, then all your efforts are brought to naught.
If a bachelor gets used to the fact that you are around, but at the same time give him the opportunity to be alone, that you do not pose a danger, he will soon offer you to share with him a bachelor's dwelling. It will be even better, to test the strength of your relationship, immediately disagree. Let a small period of time be a small test for him, but then he will be proud of having obtained your consent. And this is only to your advantage!