More than 30% of men over forty suffer from erectile dysfunction. The progress of civilization, workaholism, lack of free time, harmful influence of external factors - all this leads to the fact that people forget about their health. And in the case of men, it's also a reluctance to admit to yourself that there is a problem. Therefore, the task of us - women - to comprehend, what are the sexual problems for men in 45 years and then help their beloved men to cope with this.
In Russia, millions of men suffer from erectile dysfunction. But only one in three patients reported their illness to the doctor. Worldwide, about 152 million men live with this disease, not wanting to admit the existence of a problem. And after all half of men of middle age can not lead high-grade sex life because of problems with an erection. Studies show that 95 percent of cases of erectile dysfunction can be completely cured. The overwhelming majority of men (70%) do not report their complaints to the doctor in time, which leads to a complication of the cure process.
What is erectile dysfunction?
The World Health Organization (WHO) calls erectile dysfunction (ED) a permanent or periodic inability to maintain a male penis in a state of erection to a degree sufficient for a satisfactory sex life. Until 1992, this disease was called simply impotence, then the name was replaced by "erectile dysfunction."
It is necessary to distinguish the disease, known as ED, from accidental temporary disability of any man. Remember that sometimes the inability to achieve an erection and sexual intercourse, for example due to fatigue or excessive alcohol consumption, should not be alarming. Experts believe that in the vast majority of cases erectile dysfunction develops as a result of other diseases or organ damage. The most common causes are cardiovascular and neurological diseases (more than 80% of cases).
Causes
There are many factors that can lead to erectile dysfunction:
- Diseases of the cardiovascular system, such as hypertension, atherosclerosis, venous leakage (lack of ability to supply blood to organs);
- Neurological diseases: multiple sclerosis, spinal cord injuries, nerve damage caused by other diseases, such as alcoholism or diabetes;
- Diabetes is a complication of atherosclerosis and damage to the nervous system;
- Side effects of certain drugs: for example, diuretics, drugs for peptic ulcer of stomach and duodenum, antidepressants;
- Cancer and other diseases of the prostate, as well as the consequences of operations on the colon and rectum;
- Long-term smoking of cigarettes causes constriction of blood vessels, which leads to a violation of blood flow and in the long run to atherosclerosis;
- Abnormal hormonal status - decreased secretion of testosterone;
- Aging of the body is the most common factor in the formation of atherosclerosis. Thus, the blood flow in the head of the penis is disturbed;
- Psychogenic causes, including stress, fear of inability to intercourse, depression, complex of a small member, etc.
ED is a problem of two
Any man who begins to suspect that he can have erectile dysfunction is faced with a terrible choice: to be silent, tell someone or turn to a specialist. It is important that at this point the man does not remain alone with this problem. Yes, the inability to live a normal sex life can significantly affect the partnership. Sex, in the end, is largely a link between spouses. But do not make tragedy from the fact that there were difficulties. A man feels guilty, so support him! Very often a frank conversation with a loved one can make a difference.
Why do men hide it?
Studies have shown that quite often the appearance of erectile dysfunction in men leads to a rupture of relationships. It's no wonder that men hide their sexual problems to the last, not wanting to admit even to physicians in their powerlessness. In the case of erectile dysfunction, there is always a tension, both for women and for men. Partners are increasingly separated from each other, this greatly reduces their self-esteem. Therefore, when there is a growing conflict, a person avoids considering it close-up. And the distance between the two sides is growing. Such a situation can have only negative consequences for the relationship.
How often do women, not knowing the essence of sexual problems in men over 45 years, try to blame their partners for losing interest in themselves, unwillingness to pay attention to them, unwillingness to love them. How great is the fear of a man, when after sex he already knows that the problem is that he himself is sick. Often men turn to anyone for help, only not to their beloved women. Is it really so by accident? No, everything is correct and understandable. That is why it is important that there is a close psychological connection with each other, an opportunity to trust and talk about this disease, in order to avoid subsequent misunderstandings and disappointments.
What should I do if I have ED symptoms?
When it becomes obvious that there are sexual problems in men over 45 years - a man and a woman, being aware that they just touched on the problem of erectile dysfunction should equally make efforts to solve this problem. In the beginning it is necessary to consult a doctor, preferably reliable and experienced, who will clearly study information about the state of health of a man and be able to make a more accurate diagnosis. After additional examination, the analysis, he will be able to confirm or exclude the presence of erectile dysfunction. Sometimes you may need to visit a urologist and a sexologist who will recommend appropriate forms of treatment. Please note that all persons who suffer from erectile dysfunction can count on professional help from doctors and psychologists.
Treatment
Currently, there are several ways to treat erectile dysfunction:
- Oral medications - at the moment this is the best effective way to treat ED. Some drugs that help solve this problem are already available on the Russian market. There are medicines with different terms of action and various interactions with food and drinks. When taking drugs with a longer duration of action, you and your man will need more tolerance. But the result will be longer and more tangible. The greatest advantage in taking oral drugs is their high efficiency. But it must be remembered that each drug is different, and only a doctor can choose it for the patient, depending on individual circumstances.
- Injection - the method is used quite rarely. Before the sexual act, a special substance is injected into the penis, contributing to the onset of erection. The disadvantage of this method is soreness and invasiveness.
- Prostheses - they are used when other methods of treatment do not bring results. The prosthesis is implanted in the penis, which can then be "pumped" shortly before sexual intercourse.
- Other methods of treatment - psychotherapy, hormonal therapy, etc.
Please note that only the doctor can prescribe the method of treatment and the drugs themselves. Do not buy them in other places, through so-called "second hands". It can only hurt a man.
And one more important point. A tablet is not a wonderful remedy, it's a medical product. In order for it to work, a man must himself desire closeness, there must be a sexual inclination and desire. And this is directly dependent on the woman. The erection does not occur "automatically". Especially in men over 45 years. The vym will have to try to bring the partner to the right degree.
The most important thing is perseverance
It is worth noting that for the treatment of erectile dysfunction, the main tenacity. For the diagnosis of the disease and appropriate treatment is not always enough only one visit to the doctor. Do not expect that immediately after the first consultation, you will be prescribed a "magic remedy" that will solve all your problems. Erectile dysfunction is a complex disease - first you need to find the cause (for example, to diagnose other diseases that can cause it), and then proceed to treatment. And sometimes treatment can be impossible. Statistics, however, are optimistic - 95% of cases of ED successfully undergo therapy and are cured completely.