Bad guy
What do the girls imagine when they are told about a "bad couple"? Certainly not Chikatilo, not an alcoholic and not a young sadist, tormenting the kotov. Before their eyes, there always arises a mysterious, strong man, sarcastic and seemingly incapable of feeling, which leads a fairly unruly life and is popular with women. Such a guy must have a reason for this behavior. Most likely, he has a deep emotional trauma associated with love or a family that has broken a young man. In the soul of a "bad" guy must necessarily be a good person who knows how to love and for the sake of his beloved must change, showing his real essence. Yes, it is these "bad guys" that we most often see on the screens. Here are just scriptwriters who idealize them, focusing on the female audience. And what happens in real life?
A person who behaves in a similar way, ie, contemptuously treats others, allows himself various antics, simply can find places in life, always has deep complexes, from which he tries to get rid of at the expense of others. That's why these young people behave, they mock, they can offend and humiliate. Moreover, they choose this behavior in a completely conscious way, because this is the simplest way. Why work nadsuboy, change, achieve something in life, if you can assert yourself among those who are weaker, softer and kinder? Such a man will never change for the better for the sake of his beloved woman. He simply does not have this best side. This behavior is a vivid manifestation of his cowardice and cowardice. The guy is simply afraid to admit to himself that he is not cool, that he constantly worries because of the opinions of others and does not in itself represent anything. Therefore, if he sees that a woman loves him, then she will certainly take advantage of her feeling, and despotically.
"Bad" guys never think about the feelings of others, not because of personal tragedies. They just do not notice anything around, except for their own petty feelings and self-satisfaction. If a beautiful woman is next to such a man, he will show it to everyone like a doll, and say that she is lucky, because beautiful, then stupid people need constant care. And he made such a broad gesture and took it under his wing.
Such a man would never allow a woman to be better than him. And he will never forgive anything, because it infringes on his male dignity, which, in fact, is not at all. But he will justify all his misdeeds and consider that the lady is obliged to forgive everything. And such acts include beatings, treason, alcoholism, and so on. Therefore, if you see that the guy is "bad", do not harbor hopes and believe in book and serial images. A person who has something good in his soul will never allow himself to unjustly offend others, humiliate, just to hurt. He can be a loner, he can get angry when climbing into his personal space, but he will never torment other radimas. Therefore, one should not confuse "bad" guys with unsociable and closed ones. The "bad" guy on the contrary, often, always tries to win the whole attention, because in his heart he is very cowardly and notorious, but he does not admit it.
Good guy
And now, let's talk about how young maidens represent a good guy. Two different images may appear in the head of young female representatives. The first is a nerd in glasses who is not capable of adventurous deeds, never tried a drink, lives with his parents, implicitly obeys them and wears a tweed jacket. He is very correct and decent, he thinks about kisses only after the wake, has no sense of humor, in general boring, boring and too smart, always reminds everyone. The second version of the "good" guy is radically different from the first. He is an insanely handsome young man, intelligent and strong, who always rushes to help everyone indiscriminately. He does everything for his beloved, he takes out the stars from the sky and never forgets. He is an understanding, kind, honest, devoted young man. In fact, neither the first nor the second image has anything to do with reality. In the first case, a very shy and notorious person is described, who has grown up all over, where parents tend to terrorize their children by setting the most severe frames. And the second image is generally unreal, because every living person has his own instincts and experiences.
A "good" guy, this, in the first place, is a person who lives according to conscience and justice. He respects the people who are with him and treats women like women, as an object for sex and ridicule. A "good" guy will not allow himself to degrade, insult and discuss the fair sex. This young man does not run to save everyone and always, but if he sees injustice, then, most likely, will not pass by. Such men can be trusted, because they are not trying to manipulate someone and persuade people to take the necessary decisions through blackmail. These guys may well have complexes, but they cope with them themselves, and do not earn themselves a name due to the humiliation of others. A good guy can and drink and swear. At the same time, it can be very romantic to devote to your favorite ballad. But whatever this person is, first of all, he always cares about that his loved ones need not anything. Good people are not always distinguished by ideal manners, beautiful looks, sharp minds. A "good" guy can be a young locksmith and an ingenious programmer. Such couples are united not by external qualities and sharpness of mind, but by the desire for justice, the ability to respect and help people in difficult times, but without idealizing their actions and with a sober glance at everything that is happening around. Therefore, when you choose between a "bad" and a "good" guy, think about how correctly you have characterized it, and whether you are mistaken, confusing and substituting concepts.