Basics of achieving mutual understanding with a strong gender
In order to understand how to behave with a guy, the first thing a girl must decide is who he is to her: a casual counter for a short novel or a person with whom you want to live years. In the first case, no special rules should not be followed, if you just want to have fun - do it with all the carelessness, not paying attention to the details. Well, if a lady plans to interest a man for a long time, she will have to resort to some tricks.
- A successful first date is the guarantee of future relationships, so take it seriously. In order to please the representative of the stronger sex at this stage of dating, be sure to listen and take everything he says. Show interest to his personality, because if you miss his story about yourself, the man will understand that he "did not hook you".
- Even if you have a lot of positive qualities and your character is close to the ideal, you do not need to disclose all your trumps at the first meeting. Remember that a man likes to solve a woman gradually, step by step. Learning about you all at once, you just become uninteresting to him, and he will go in search of a new puzzle.
- Do not lie about yourself. Embellishing themselves in the eyes of the interlocutor sin many, but remember that during a long acquaintance, which you expect, deception still open. It is rather insulting and unpleasant to see disappointment in the eyes of a loved one.
- Almost all of us are looking for friends who are similar to us in spirit and hobbies. The same goes for the life partner. The more a woman with a man has common interests, the better. Find out what this person does in life, how he spends his free time, maybe his hobby will please you. You can come up with a new lesson, interesting to both, which will even more rally you as a couple.
- Obsession is the enemy of good attitude. Continuous walking on the heels of his man in a short time begins to greatly irritate him. Even if you madly love your passion, leave him a piece of freedom and personal space and believe me, he will appreciate it.
- Do not panic if you started to quarrel sometimes with your loved one. Small differences are an integral part of everyday life. It can be said that relations without conflicts are even a little boring. The main thing is not to overdo it at the time of a quarrel, avoid insults and humiliating words, and then try to resolve the conflict by peace and remind your man that you still love him very much and respect him.
- Even when you realize that you won the heart of a guy, do not relax. For good relations you should constantly warm up his interest in yourself, try to maintain his love, fight routine with new impressions and emotions, show those positive qualities that he does not yet suspect.
- Do not make a man jealous of you. Flirting with others, you will not achieve respect for yourself. On the contrary, you will be considered a frivolous woman who does not have high moral principles. In addition, a very jealous man in a fit of rage can even apply physical strength to you, so it's better to avoid such troubles.
Is the man worth your effort?
We figured out how a woman should behave properly with a man, but we need to consider another point: is the representative of the opposite sex worth the effort? Based on the survey among ladies, a list of masculine qualities was compiled, noting that his partner should think better about the advisability of continuing relations with him:
- Despotism takes a leading position among the worst human qualities. 77% of the polled women spoke against this character trait.
- Alcoholism was given a silver rating. 59% of respondents did not want to see as a life partner a person who constantly drinks.
- Against greed 38% of the representatives of the fair sex spoke.
- Among other negative features, slovenliness, wastefulness, weak character and falsity were called.