At work
Today, relations at work are not considered something out of the ordinary. Of course, you should not advertise them. In a relationship with colleagues at work people rush often. After all, most of the time we spend everything there, and by the evening there is no longer any love for carrots, most of them, having come home, lay down to sleep. And in the most "business" time we are in the office. That's throwing "the keyboard and phone workers" in the arms of young secretaries, sexual bosses and just neighbors in the smoking room. This is treason special. Both partners quite realistically assess the prospects of such relations and are unlikely to talk about any feelings or attach themselves to each other. Such sex can be not just without some kind of caresses and preludes - it can exclude even communication between partners. Verbal communication, of course, - they have more than enough body. Although the service romance can drag on for many months, and even years. This is a kind of detente - and from a constant rest partner, and from the work of pleasure more.
In the resort
Unfortunately, not every couple can afford to relax together. Someone is not released at work, someone on the spirit does not tolerate the hotly loved partner India or the scorching Egyptian sun. And some families believe that a separate holiday strengthens relations and makes them more diverse. But the fact remains - a holiday apart from the spouse or many is not considered something unnatural, as a result, the bright sun and hot sand lovers go to enjoy separately. And there, on the opposite ends of the earth, the hormones of both begin to take their own. At the same time, a modest inner voice usually pauses or even begins to cheek cheek: do it, no one will know. And after all, surprisingly, the object of desire is easy, and the desire is almost always mutual. Women from such relationships in the literal sense of "balder" - when you can get a whole store of confessions and courtships for a week? And men get pleasure from ready-made for all kinds of adventures of residents of resort towns or the same visitors and looking for love adventures. As a rule, in such a relationship everyone gets what they want. After all, you do not need to think about the future, especially not try - after a couple of days the erotic tale will end, and the spouses will fly home, everyone from their continent - to meet and arrange such a show sex that everyone tactfully keeps silent about where so many new receivers come from. By the way, for women, romance novels often end up unsuccessfully - if you get a head of some hot oriental handsome, then disappear, do not write letters to him in small handwriting and torture yourself with the thought "why did not he call back." And then in pursuit of a fleeting tale you can lose a serious strong relationship. And my beloved husband. Let a little wrong. Let a little horny. But beloved.
Virtual Treason
Have you ever read someone else's correspondence? The history of messages in ICQ? Or e-mails? Do not need. I repent, I am a sinner. Every time I promise myself to respect my partner's personal life. And every time I crash. The computer is on, the lover is not at home, all programs are in the palm of your hand. Open. Ah, you love. Problems at work? Distract you a little today. What is it? Phew, what a vulgarity. Opportunities for such an affair mass - SMS, electronic correspondence, a huge number of sex chats and other electronic stuff. The scheme is simple: go, come up with an attractive nickname and start communicating. You can put a photo - more poerotichnee, with as little as possible clothes. Men easily show themselves to virtual friends in all its glory, but the girls in this plan are usually more timid. Photo electronic seductresses do not immediately show, delay this moment. Many of them even send an image from the Internet to the admirer instead of their photo (true, the photos of celebrities are no longer fashionable - to such a "zamanuha" virtual macho developed immunity), and someone is limited to an oral description of their charms. Why are the married couples tired of the family bed pulling into the erotic web of the world wide web? Banalities like "fatigue from monotony in bed" and the standard saying "demon in the rib" here will be redundant. The main thing that attracts both men and women in virtual sex is that there are no prohibitions in it. You do not see your partner, but he does not see you. You'll never meet. So, you can afford everything, even those things about which you were ashamed to just speak out loud.
Men and women who have changed their constant partner, regret the perfect deed, despite the fact that the deed has remained a secret. These are the results of modern studies conducted by psychologists and psychotherapists in recent years. Think before you cross the forbidden line. Minutes of pleasure are not worth the trust of a loved one.
"On an old friendship"
The presence of "good old girlfriends" in the faithful is unlikely to give you pleasure. Just like his "just friends" and former classmates. Someone said that the friendship between a man and a woman is sex, postponed for later. Opinions on this subject are different for all. But such communication can easily grow into something more. One serious (or not) quarrel between spouses - and they go to seek consolation from friends. And if a friend turns out to be of a different gender? Yes, and nice looks? Perhaps, there was a secret passion between you and the school years? A little alcohol can become a catalyst for this mixture. And the result is only embarrassment between partners. Women after such intrigues, as a rule, again go headlong into the family - affects the sense of guilt. Communication with a "friend" may well end for a long time. And men behave more at ease - they may well continue to communicate with the "old girlfriend," but it's unlikely that one-time sex will grow into more. Such intrigues end with nothing - from old acquaintances, whose friendship is time-tested, seldom come out lovers.
Unfinished treason
One day a ghastly thought crept into my head that the relationship had begun to get bored, there was not enough of something sharp and fresh. But, as luck would have it, my beloved person was out of reach, and I would hardly have to wait for exciting adventures. Standard kisses, standard sex. At best, we would do it not on the bed, but, for example, on the floor. And this would be called "diversity." And that's where I was drawn in search of adventure "on the fifth point." I prepared thoroughly: I made a plan for what I wanted to put into practice, I figured out where it could be done and most importantly, selected candidates for the role of "a quick substitute partner." The first was an old friend. An old friend has long dreamed that we will not just be friends, but friends, who at least occasionally have sex, but as a maximum - do it all the time. The bell. Invitation to the restaurant. Long fees. Taxi. Dinner. Another taxi. And already near the door, my drunken "candidate" began to brazenly climb to me. I myself wanted it, but at that moment it became disgusting and disgusting. I escaped from this cavalier. And then she happened to meet her former love. A red light in my head caught fire, but it's too late - the mechanism was already running. Maybe coffee? We go to you. My hand is on your shoulder. I innocently kiss her cheek. And then I jerked like a current. In this apartment I was hundreds of times. Hundred times hugged this man. And now everything looks as if nothing has changed. The same walls, the same sofa, the same books, the same vase of sweets on the coffee table. I look in my eyes and understand. No. I can not. For these few minutes, I remembered everything: why did I leave this person, why did not I start talking then. I'm running from the apartment.
Taxi. Way home. What's next for the plan? Oh. Acquaintance with a sexual stranger. In club. Or with a couple of strangers. Oh no! I'm over it! Good-bye. The phone rings. "Yes, my kitten? Of course, I'll be right there." "I'm really bored!" You too? Well, hold on, sweet. " So my thoughtful, carefully planned treachery did not take place. But now I just realized that I do not want anyone else. And to suspect the faithful has become much less - we are all people. And if I strongly want to, I will win back twice. As a rule, women restrict this. With men it is more difficult. Most likely, he will still bring it to the end. Only in order to understand that "your samovar is better." And calm down. And you, my dear, will remain in a happy ignorance. Well, maybe it's for the better - because you know less, as they say, you sleep more tightly.
In conclusion, I want to say only one thing. All that you just read does not mean at all that your lover is trying to teach you horns everywhere. Yes, intrigues happen often. And this does not always mean the end of love - it is necessary to distinguish the relationship with another person and just sex. But, most likely, at work, your husband does not think about the long legs of a colleague at a neighboring computer, but about where to invite you for a weekend. Or remembers your last night.
Well, if you look at things quite soberly - it just works. It works in order to feed the family, and then go to the resort with you. And do not look there, at "other people's samovars." And even with his friends he hardly sleeps haphazardly - maybe discussing yesterday's fool from the sex chat, which sent him a photo of a nude blonde Hilton, but no more. Relationships are built on trust - so trust, and such problems will bypass you. Favorite will appreciate.