According to psychologists, men's egoists are much more than women. Every third woman encounters the selfishness of her man. Undoubtedly, the egoism of a man becomes the culprit of many family quarrels. Consider some of the signs of selfishness in men.
Male egoism occurs quite often, and he can express himself in various situations. Many women, coming home after a hard day's work, are mistaken for household chores, because this is simply necessary. A woman launderes, removes, prepares dinner, and her companion at this time quietly "lying" on the couch. After all, he perfectly understands that his other half as well as he is tired and she needs help. But despite this, for any request for help, he gives an answer that this is not a man's business. And if she gets tired - it's her problem.
Many women also face this situation. If a man has a slight discomfort, then he immediately goes to bed and requires special and constant attention. He does not care about the other affairs of his woman, he does everything in every possible way, "so that he can be wiped off snot, fed from a spoon," despite the fact that he has a malaise.
Another situation. Some men are ashamed of anyone, to talk about their poor health. But a man egoist on the contrary, is capable of making a complete tragedy due to a slight indisposition and even pretending that he is ill. For example, you need to fix the outlet urgently or help bring some things into the house, and he starts complaining that he is so "sick" that there is no power to go to the doctor. And of course, he will boldly go to the doctor and complain about "colic in the tummy".
Other variants of male egoism
Familiar to many ladies and the following situation: A woman saves money, not allowing herself to even buy extra tights, dines modestly to save the family budget. At this time, the husband allows himself to buy expensive things, to eat in expensive establishments. These are vivid signs of selfishness. Or, for example, a woman lies with a high temperature, and a man calmly going to fishing, to football, etc. Or a woman is tired and trying to fall asleep, and her chosen one turns on the TV, too loudly.
The next manifestation of male egoism. You together recently went to a concert, which you really liked. But when a friend calls a man, he proudly says that we did not go to a concert, but "I" was supposed to be at this concert. Why is this happening? This sign of selfishness is associated with low self-esteem and the desire to assert itself in every way towards others. Perhaps in his youth, your man tried to escape from maternal care, and therefore any attempt to deny her participation in life. This usually happens with those men whom mothers were not just brought up, but considered and considered a small child, did not allow to make unattended a single step. In this case, the woman needs to do everything so that instead of "I" he would say "we". It is necessary to make every effort to organize all the joint activities entirely man. I bought tickets, paid all the expenses. A woman in this case should also be a little selfish for a short time.
The following example is also a bright sign of selfishness in men. You have on your table the last candy, a bunch of grapes or other. Your chosen one, without even hesitation, can eat the last piece of the product, without thinking that you might also like to eat it. This also happens because his parents brought him up so. To remedy this situation, a woman for the time being recommended to become also a capricious girl. For example, if he ate the last "yummy", then try to pretend "and where are the grapes"? Try to take offense at him. Next time he will share with you or give you the last bunch of grapes.
Many women are familiar with such situations. And they meet so often that women consider male egoism to be the norm. But with this you need to fight, because any woman wants to be loved, and not act as a mom. Therefore, if a man shows signs of selfishness, you should find a way out of the situation correctly. Gradually, your man will become a really caring companion.