Study its needs.
Know the basic needs of men and try to satisfy them - this is the most important on the way to the cherished goal - to learn how to manage a man. Moreover, it should, just unobtrusively help him understand women's values. If only to meet his needs, a man may not understand your contribution to this.
Each of us is always pleased with any signs of care and attention. Remember that to each man the parents presented a kind of "useful" gifts, because, according to the parents, the gift should not only be pleasant to the child, but it is also necessarily useful, in fact it may not be so. It is important for a man to give such gifts, which he would like. When he is given what he does not particularly want, a man can "load" the memory of some of his parents' attitudes toward him.
Have respect for his values.
Respect the values, rules and principles of men. If your principles are different, then, speaking about your values, try not to criticize the thoughts and values of men. This quality is very valuable, but quite rare among women. A rare man will like a woman who does not count with him. Moreover, try to find out what makes him nervous in other women, including your mother, and try to minimize these actions.
Dress, considering its taste.
Learn about his preferences regarding appearance. Strive to be attractive in accordance with male criteria of attractiveness. Learn about his sexual preferences, including what excites him and likes it in his clothes. Everything depends on individual preferences, regardless of the fact that in our culture there are some universal erotic clothes. If you learn and "get" into his individual preferences, this will affect a man much more strongly and effectively. It is important to know that grooming and taking care of one's appearance is considered one of the main rules of women's attractiveness for men.
Tell the man compliments.
For any man, the main component of life is success. Moreover, such a success can be in a variety of areas. It is important for a man to see from your side signs of recognition of his virtues, and it does not matter what is done. For example, you can say: "You cook great kebabs" or "You tell jokes perfectly well" and the like. Do not forget to respond as positively about his physical merits, highlighting specific parts of the body, in particular, sexual.
Be a support for the man.
To learn how to stealthily manage a beloved man will help and the next tip - try to always be friendly and benevolent. Here we are not talking about physical attractiveness, but about the mood for a partner, goodwill. A man in difficult situations is important support in the form: "You will cope with this", "I believe in you", but not only in words, but also in deeds. And, of course, in case of failures, one should avoid such negative statements as: "You always have that", "I told you so," "Nothing will come of you" and the like.
Try to choose the right words.
If there are contradictions between a man and a woman, you should designate them calmly and gently. The main thing is to try to reconcile these contradictions themselves, as men are usually more straightforward and less disposed to compromises. When it comes to finding out the relationship, do it in some clear and clear way for men - and only if necessary. Very often the crowning female phrase "We need to talk with you", leads the man into confusion, he begins to feel raped, helpless and so on.
At the same time, an attractive woman in moments when partners are separated from each other or in a relationship there is tension, can notice it in time and help a man to clarify the situation. After all, a man can simply not notice what is happening, and they do not know how to correct tense situations like women.
Do not "load" a man with emotions.
You should not "load" a man with the number of emotions and emotions that he can not withstand. Remember that a man is less adapted to emotions, so he can withstand less than a woman. When expressing you excessive joy or sadness, your emotions overload the man, and he does not know how to react to it and how to deal with it. It is believed that tears are one of the most effective female tools. But, in fact, if you abuse tearfulness, the man, on the contrary, starts to move away and look narrowly at more calm women.
Be sincere.
In our culture, there is much talk about manipulative means to attract a man. In fact, men are most attracted by sincerity, rather than artificiality and contortion. Safety is one of the basic needs of men, therefore the most valuable attractive quality will be the fact of man's confidence in the woman, including in non-artificiality and non-finesse.
It is necessary to observe the measure in everything.
Never forget the aphorism of the famous thinker "A man is cold to a woman who loves him too much, and vice versa." Therefore, in the manifestation of their feelings, to steer a man unnoticed, it is necessary to observe a certain measure.
Try to be self-sufficient.
It is very important that the woman always remains independent, bright and independent, and not just for the given purpose to please the man. The character and the manifestation of independence always attracts men.