When a girl tells a loved one that the stamp in her passport is not important for her, she is cunning in order not to frighten off the guy. In the depths of her soul she dreams of Mendelssohn's march and a snow-white dress. But there are men who agree to meet, but they do not plan a family. How to recognize such a man, so as not to waste precious time on this unpromising specimen?
Ten signs that he will never marry you
1. A man does not want to marry
He often disappears. This exacerbates feelings when, in the beginning, a young person writes ten SMS messages a night, and then disappears for a few days. He is a true master of love. But if a man has serious plans for you, he will not drag you into these games. He does not need to ruffle your nerves and raise your rating in your eyes if you have become a close person for him, with whom you should think about the future.
2. He does not speak well about ex-girls
If you will recall your past relationships, then in each of the former you can find some positive features. Why does your loved one have a radically different situation? And why are all his former girls "intrusive", "stupid" and "crazy"? It may happen that after some time and at your address will sound the same epithets.
3. He tells in a negative light about married friends The guy who is going to create a family in the future will not say such phrases that the friend's wife "sits on his neck". He will not say that his friend lost his freedom. After all, if he says so about his friends, he voices his views on marriage and family. Wanting to create his family, he will talk about various trifles that are pleasant for a couple, watching a joint film when you do not want to go anywhere, because next to him sits his native person.
4. He does not start talking about children and the wedding.
As soon as you start talking on these topics, he seamlessly turns to talk about the approaching party and about his car. It's good that he does not cheat when he discusses uninteresting topics and pretends to dream of a lavish wedding banquet. But the other is bad, this man is not yet ready to marry. He is not going to develop relationships and is not set up to create a family.
5. It postpones acquaintance with friends and with his family for an indefinite period
In this matter, you should not put pressure on the guy. But if you have been together for several months and still do not know his parents, it makes sense to think, maybe his attitude towards you is not so serious. If a man is going to create a family, he will proudly introduce you to his surroundings, and will not expect a reminder from you.
6. He flirts with different girls in your presence
It's unpleasant if this girl is your close friend. He flirts with a pretty saleswoman in the store, you've come to buy a new coat and with unfamiliar beauties. The reasons for unpleasant behavior can be two. Or your beloved don Juan by nature or just does not value your relationship. And if he is a Don Juan, this quality will not even be remedied by marriage. It's worth thinking about whether you need such a man?
7. He is not jealous of you at all
Excessive jealousy creates serious problems in the relationship. It is useful in small quantities, because it makes your relationship vivid and demonstrates value and significance for the chosen one. If there are absolutely no manifestations of jealousy, then he does not value you.
8. In intimate relationships, he wants to quickly obtain the desired
If a man sees in you a future wife, he will not insist and hurry if you are not sure and are not ready. Only the guy who was interested in this side of the relationship will start looking for different tricks so that you agree to it.
9. Your relationship lasts a long time. So men are arranged, if their relationship lasts more than three years, it becomes unclear to him why he should go to the registry office. This applies to civil marriage, there will be even less chance to go under the crown.
10. He says he is not going to marry.
If your boyfriend said that he is not going to marry, then do you have reason to distrust him? I wish that these words were random, but he still dreamed of a family, children, but in this case your boyfriend is not going to marry and these thoughts will be an illusion.
If from this list you have found several signs in your relations and you are not satisfied with just a meeting, then maybe you should look for another man on your heart and hand?