If your elect does not often, but still drinks, but about or not, first of all pay special attention to this. Just try to control it, only do it completely unobtrusively, without any ultimatums and scandals. Remember, men do not like it when they are told how to live. Simply, in this situation it is necessary to approach this problem very carefully and delicately. To begin with, you need to figure out which of the factors of his life or environment make him do it. And so, let's nevertheless turn to the complex male psychology and find out: if a man drinks a little, the reasons for this phenomenon?
As you know, the male soul is a dark forest, and for us women, it's not always possible to understand why they do these or those things. But, as you know, every action has its own special valid reason. It can be both internal and accompanying it in everyday life. A man may simply not be satisfied with his work, his status, his position. Know, men are much more difficult to endure their life shocks and turmoil in this or that sphere of life or relations. Because of this, instead of opening up to you and talking, they leave themselves tet-a-tet with alcohol and their problems. He gets tired of the same work, both morally and physically or simply can not relax, and a glass of beer, just help him in this. Also, most often, men consume alcohol, it is because of us, women. For example, if he feels weaker than you, then in this case, taking alcohol, he subconsciously self-affirms as a person. After all, alcohol always gives a man courage and self-confidence. Also, alcohol, gives courage not only to women, but also to our so-called strong halves. Having taken, I will perfume a couple of drops, directly for bravery, a guy can tell a girl that he does not like it and what he would like to expect from her in the future. Another important motivator is that a man may not be satisfied with his family life. Constant reprisals and scandals, reproaches and discontent, just sooner or later knock him out of the habitual collie of a calm and measured life. Here, the most obvious guilt comes, of course, from the woman herself, who, due to her pressure on her husband or boyfriend, prompts him, with immediate moral pressure on his part, to quench it all in a glass of a strong "medicine". By the way, it is the problems in his personal life that are the most important reason for the man's attachment to the fact that he begins to drink. Here we can safely and include the sexual aspect. When, he, is not sure of his male power or is convinced that sex without previously bottled wine bottles is not at all what you need. Here, too, very clearly, it can be the reason that with the help of alcohol, a guy just struggles with his shyness or some of his internal taboos. This applies not only to intimate life. After a few drops of alcohol, he teaches all the complexes, he becomes more sociable, much more relaxed and more interesting. Remember men's complexes - this is their main men's problem, and the strong sex tries to fight it with all means. Still, it is not excluded, the indisputable fact that your chosen one is simply bored with everyday bustle, everyday problems and so on or he just feels emotional solitude and emptiness. And when he went to a bar in the evening, he, simply, in such a way, moves away from everything he can say is enough. The conclusion in this may be that he simply does not have any hobbies and activities, which, he could, directly, take care of this and distract himself.
Do not forget that in this way, a man can fight with his unpleasant memories and resentments for life, stresses and various emotional states of the inner world. Or just the main reason for everything is his environment, colleagues and friends. As for friends, it is the company of friends - this is the place where refusing to drink alcohol is simply a bad thing for anyone, even absolutely not a drinking man or boyfriend. But, of course, if you look at this problem from the point of view of medicine, then it is worth turning to its pedigree - after all, its craving for a full glass may be nothing but bad genes.
And summing up the main line under all of the above, it is worth noting: why advance yourself to the idea that your chosen one drinks a little. He does not go into weekly, or even monthly binges, does not get drunk every day to the most, that is, on a white fever. If a man drinks a little - the reasons for this may be the most harmless, so do not rush to conclusions and do not put on him the brand of alcoholic. Calling him an alcoholic would be an absolutely wrong expression. Of course, if you are a complete supporter of a sober lifestyle and do not use beverages containing at least a certain percentage of alcohol, then just talk with your chosen one heart-to-heart. The main thing is do it without any reproaches and hysterics. Just correctly explain to him that it does not suit you, and you would like him to stop drinking. If a man loves and appreciates you, he will certainly listen to your opinion.