And we dared - and share with you our observations! The development of femininity in a feminine character is an important type of ideal.
Overly narrow clothing - whether dress, skirt or trousers - looks unattractive and absolutely unfeminine. This assertion of one of the men we interviewed has shocked us. After all, it would seem that it can be more seductive than a tight-fitting outfit? Further more - courses karate, shpaklevku walls and cigarette smoking, some representatives of the stronger sex considered quite a woman's occupation! Finally convinced of my ignorance of male psychology, we decided to make a list of the main criteria of femininity. Based on the survey conducted (it involved both boys and girls), we managed to identify 20 characteristics of a real lady. Of course, it is impossible to find absolute compliance with all the criteria. So do not take our list too seriously. However, completely neglecting the wishes of the male part of humanity is not the most correct decision. In this case, as in most others, you need to find a middle ground.
Ideal woman
Even within the same culture, there may be several definitions of such a thing as femininity. One man is impressed by persistent and confident ladies who put their professional success above all else. Another is a modest, quiet, concentrated on the house and children. Our mothers often advised us to be strong, but not surrounded by men. Next to them you need to play the role of a defenseless tender flower, in need of support. Is today this advice less relevant? Nevertheless, sometimes it is worth forgetting the stereotypes imposed on us. First of all, we must be true to ourselves, our tastes, our views on life, our convictions and principles. And what if they seem unacceptable to someone? The main thing is that we are so comfortable, which means that we will feel happier!
Beauty natural and underlined
Do not run yourself and try to look at all 100! This rule extends to any area of your life: rest, home, work. In most men disgust (and absolutely right!) Untidy and sloppy girls. Remember the depilation. According to market research, in the cold season, depilation sales fall by almost 70%, but winter is not an excuse. The next trip to a cafe or cinema can unexpectedly end more than romantically, and then there will simply not be time for explanations or emergency depilation. The minimum of cosmetics. Girls unanimously lament: On the one hand, we should always look attractive, but if a man sees a growing mascara, he begins to burst into laughter or reproach us for being unnatural! Indeed, men are attracted by naturalness. Therefore, most of them do not cause sympathy dense make-up: vulgar and absolutely unfeminine. But almost all interviewees considered a natural makeup appropriate even at home. Do not cut it short. Here, most men agreed. Although for some a short haircut - any higher cheekbones and for others - a centimeter hedgehog. So be guided by your own taste and choose the optimal length for your hair. Do not gnaw nails. It looks repulsive. By the way, many guys even the process of cutting their nails seems unaesthetic.
Clothing matched to the figure
Emphasize the silhouette. In this issue, men are categorical: "A girl with wide hips or full legs in a mini-skirt looks awkward. And vice versa - under the wide dress or skirt in the floor, for sure curves or full legs are hidden. " From this it follows: we should prefer clothes that favorably emphasize our figure, rather than corresponding to fashion trends! Always good. Forget about a terry dressing gown or a comfortable flannel pajamas for polka dots. House things repel men. Wear feminine outfits. The men who took part in the survey also zealously criticized long stretched sweaters, long skirts, trousers-breeches, ugg boots, overalls and men's hats. Focus on underwear. In the category "The femininity hit", the thong was won (provided that their edge does not protrude from under the trousers!) The notorious "paper tricots" cause the guys to panic. Do not build yourself a "lady". So said one of our respondents. "I do not see anything attractive in girls who try to look older and wear things, as if borrowed from mothers and grandmothers," is the opinion of another surveyed man. If you need to wear a suit, bet on a bright color or an unusual style.
Education is gentle, but independent
Do not swear like a shoemaker! In life, everything happens, and sometimes a strong word can break out. Only try, that "abusive" discharge of negative emotions does not enter into your habit. Vulgarity outweighs the attractiveness. Control the outbreak of anger. Interviewed men often called non-feminine the following situations: "angry because of what has already passed," "talking on elevated tones," "sucks hysteria." Do not apply to a glass, quit smoking. The overwhelming majority of men do not like it. In a smoking woman, as a rule, the hair is saturated with the smell of tobacco, and this smell is hardly pleasant. If you get to drink alcohol, be guided by a sense of proportion. The sight of a drunk woman acts repulsively. Be independent. In their views and decisions. Men do not like women who unconditionally agree with everything and everyone, as well as indecisive and uncomplaining persons. Do not talk too much. And not just with friends on the phone. Men are annoyed when we ask several times about the same thing or we respond inappropriately.
Sex planned and spontaneous
Do not hide under the blanket. Even if you have cellulite, extra inches at the waist, or not enough elastic breasts. For your man, you are the coveted and best woman in the whole world! Become a goddess. Take care of how to look as seductive as possible. Choose the appropriate fragrance and do not forget to put on beautiful underwear. Do not get out of the image. The next morning after a stormy night, stay the same sexy and gentle - it will secure for you the status of this seductress. Less words. Guys prefer to watch, and not speak (in men, as is known, the right hemisphere dominates, therefore for them the visual-observational process is more important). Therefore, each of your questions, asked during lovemaking, only irritates the man. In addition, after sexual intercourse the guy has a physiological need for sleep - do not be offended: this indicates that he was fine with you. More business. 75% of the guys would like their partner to be more active. What if you do not have the will or the strength, and does your darling just wait for your initiative? Do not be angry and do not criticize him - this can be the reason for another quarrel. Just hug it and tell us about your feelings and desires. Maybe it will bring you closer and warm you up.
What looks asexual?
Women are condemning and critical. "Although I myself smoke, I think this habit is completely unfeminine. A woman in tobacco smoke is a disgusting sight! On the other hand, the same cigarette over a cup of coffee or a glass of light wine can become an exotic detail, tuning to romance. " "Inability to walk in shoes with high heels, the so-called wobbling gait or shuffling with their feet." "Sunburn from the solarium, bleached hair hydrogen peroxide, complete with a bright pink tight dress!" "I consider it completely unattractive for a woman to engage exclusively in men's sports (for example, boxing) or men's professions (guards, police and firemen)." Cleaning the house in some tights and a bra. Men exactly and specifically "When her laughter is like a growl of a tractor and the sound of a cracking glass." "A woman who drinks beer from a large mug immediately loses her femininity. Similarly, as if a guy was pulling beer through a straw. " "Even the most beautiful woman with a mustache for me will always remain ... a guy!" "When an already effective woman paints her hair in a very bright color. This hairstyle hides its natural beauty. " If the girl is truly feminine, she will remain so, even if she drinks an extra glass of wine or sits down on my knees. But if it pushes before my eyes, then the continuation of the relationship can not be and speeches.