In fact, there are three main reasons, which are most often guided by the fair sex: pity, fears of material dependence. Next, we'll talk about each reason more specifically.
A pity
Women very often suffer precisely because of their pity. It often happens that they even start a relationship precisely because of the fact that it's just a pity that a young man loves so much. Unfortunately, such couples are extremely rarely happy. There are superfluous cases when pity turns into love. Most often it gradually turns into irritation and disgust. However, this is not surprising, because, as we know, pity is one of the most bad feelings. People can sympathize, but in no case do not regret.
If the relationship is built on pity, in the end, there will be two sides to suffer. That's why, feeling that love has passed, a woman must find the strength in herself to still maintain relations. Of course, every man experiences such tragedies in his own way. But whatever happens, you can never blame yourself for the fact that the baby starts to drink or behaves inadequately. The fact is that such behavior is often a "show-off", directed precisely Navas. The guy knows how pitiful you are and showing everyone and everything how much he suffers, just crushes psychologically. Remember that such behavior is not inherent in a truly loving person. If he really loves you, then let him go, no matter how it hurts. And he will never walk and complain to all the common acquaintances. And those who organize a real dramatic theater, in fact, are banal egoists. In doing so, they tie the vask to themselves and force them to depend on their mood and desires. If you regret such a young man once, then do not be surprised when he will fall into real hysterics at every scandal, threaten with suicides and so on. By the way, many women are afraid of suicide from the side of the abandoned man. Remember that if the guy at every convenient and an uncomfortable case threatens that you will commit suicide - you can not worry. Those who are really capable of such an act will not announce this. But even if, God willing, there will still be a tragedy, remember that your fault is not. In order not to say "well-wishers", this outcome does not mean that you are a terrible person, but only that a guy was mentally ill. Most likely, he would still have done something like this, sooner or later. So, if you notice a suicidal tendencies for a young man, instead of being pitied and thereby indulging the disease, it is better to inform his relatives that the person is emotionally and mentally unstable, so you need to look after him and most likely show it to a specialist. Only you can not take responsibility for his future actions and consider that they have not followed him. He was oversawed by his parents, because suchpsychic problems appear as early as childhood, the maximum in adolescence. So, if you feel that you no longer love a person, but while he constantly evokes pity from you, immediately leave. This will be the best way out of the situation and you will really help him
Fear
Another reason why a woman is afraid to leave a man is fear. Often this happens when a young man is mocked by an oppressive tyrant. He methodically insults the woman, even beats, threatens with reprisal in case of her leaving. A girl, in turn, not experiencing anything other than animal fear, can not leave him, because he is afraid of the consequences.
If you have this kind of relationship, then you need to take yourself out and leave immediately. Always remember that such men are like dogs: they attack you while they feel fear. If you give such a man a rebuff, then even raising your hand, he will understand that you can not be treated as a thing. Remember that this behavior is also a psychological problem. The phrase: "Beats - means loves" long ago already outlived. A loving person will never want to hurt his woman. If your boyfriend insults and beats you, then he has a psychological disorder and being with him next door is simply life-threatening. In such a situation, it is always necessary to seek help. No matter how frightened you are, remember that another blow can simply become lethal, because after a moment of aggression a person does not think about the consequences.
Some women become ashamed of the fact that they fall into similar situations, which causes silence. Remember that you have nothing to be ashamed of. Love is blind and we all at least once in life fall into its hook. In addition, close people who really value you, want you happiness and will do everything to protect you. Therefore, if possible, be sure to inform your father, uncle, brother or friend about what is happening. You should know that you have protection. This is worth recalling to my young man. And best of all, let your father (brother, friend) talk to him. After such a conversation, his hand will hardly rise on you, as always those who suffer from complexes of self-confidence in themselves are always mocking. And if they feel a real threat, they will never stop looking for trouble at the "fifth point". After such a conversation, you can safely leave the young man, not beware that he pours acid in your face.
Material dependence
The third reason why women become attached to men is money. Many ladies can not break off relations, because they are simply afraid to remain without financial support. In this case, everything depends on you. Think about what is more important for you: to walk in branded clothes or to be with someone you love, and not with someone who is disgusting you. Many women still think that their destiny is a household and for work they are simply unadapted . Millions of independent ladies have proved that this is not the case. Therefore, if you are holding only a man's salary near a man - without thinking about it. Let first you and it will be difficult, but then you can be proud of yourself and your accomplishments. The thing is that finances create a very strong dependence, which is difficult to break. Representatives of the stronger sex know about this and constantly enjoy such privileges. A man who fully provides a woman has the full right to demand everything from her. So, getting into the material dependence, you find yourself in a real trap, the way out of which can only be found if the spiritual values are higher than the material values.