First, if all the same misfortune has happened, and your chosen one has left, then you should not feel depressed and feel sorry for yourself. To experience enough for a couple of days, then it's worth to get angry with this "goat" and "freak", who did not appreciate all your actions and so heartlessly left you. So, calm down, life goes on! Do not beg the man back to you. You're a woman, man! You have a sense of dignity and respect! In addition, the well-known phrase "come back, I'll forgive everything," means that he is to blame for something, and you make a gesture of goodwill. Returning, your lover will feel guilty, which is not. You yourself have not changed, and you propose to him to return to the relationship from which he escaped. Do not beg to return a man, if you are moved by self-pity and resentment, and not a meaningful desire to be with a man, and do something to be the girl of his dreams.
Never use pity and blackmail. Do not write him sms, letters, do not call, and do not tell how lonely you are, it's bad that you do not see your life without him. For these purposes, your girlfriend will be better suited, who will listen, support and advise. Men are sorry for pity. They like confident, brave and independent girls. Never blame a man for parting, this is also a sign of self-pity and weak character. When meeting with friends, relatives, try not to touch on the topic of your break. Do not say that he is to blame. Hysteria, aggression, revenge, insults on your part only once again confirm to the man that he made the right choice, leaving you. Just say that you do not regret anything, the relationship was and passed.
Never blackmail a former with neither words, nor things, nor children, if they are. Pressing on his father's feelings in wanting to return a man is the last thing. Yes, perhaps you will return it to your family for a short period of time, but this will not restore your relationships, love and warm emotions. Never ask him about the one to whom he left. Do not look for her meetings, do not call or write. Understand that the comparison may not be in your favor, then it will become even more painful for you. In addition, she will tell your man about this, and he will stand by her side. All you need to do at the moment is to let him go and wait for a while. To understand whether the hero is your novel, or just a habit? Wait time, and you'll understand if it's worth all your experiences and efforts to get it back. And during this time, you can work on yourself, both internally and externally, change for the better, and become a real woman. It is important to understand that you can return a man, but your relationship will never be the same as before. You will have to become a new, different, build your relationship in a completely different way. Or find another. But, if you do not change anything in yourself, do not draw the appropriate conclusions, then you risk going back to "the same rake". So, it's time to draw conclusions and learn from your mistakes.
Stop thinking about him! Take care of something else, find yourself an exciting lesson, during which you will not think about the past and the former. It's not easy, but if you succeed, it will become easier immediately. It's a wonderful way to forget about what happened will be a vacation, a trip out of town, a change of scenery. If you are visited by sad thoughts, then switch to positive. Think about how everything is going well with you, you are beautiful, successful, healthy. If you happen to meet or phone with the former, pretend that everything is fine with you, be merry, smile, tell him about your new hobbies. You can lie a little to make it more believable. But, do not immediately talk about your success in the field of love, talk about how many and with whom you were on a date and what you were given. A man will immediately understand that you are saying this with anger. It is much better if he learns about significant changes in your life from third parties.
Parting is a small death, but a new life follows. Be happy!