Let's start in order. What is left now from the historically combined rules? Yes, now, as before, the rule that a guy is a defender, an earner and a warrior, has settled. Girls are mistresses, caring mothers, beloved creatures. But in the light of technical, technological, social and economic changes, everything is changing erratically. It remains the same question: what is the difference between guys and girls?
The guy is an earner, he works, earning with excessive labor the means to ensure his life and the life of his beloved. Most often men earn money by manual labor, they are adherents of the Soviet theory that power in their hands, adherents of the modern world find methods of earning by other methods, without the application of physical forces. Girls mostly use their natural qualities, appearance, charm, sociability. This is the difference in the first place. The girl will find the easiest way to earn, without putting special efforts, this theory is incorrect only in the case of careerists, for whom work and achievement of career peaks are more important than their moral and physical state.
The difference between guys and girls is also embedded in the perception of the world and accidents, and especially romance. Guys believe that to spray on all sorts of romantic things is not a permanent obligation to improve relations, but only a festive tribute. That is, having arranged a romantic dinner or having made a pleasant gift, it will necessarily coincide with it for any holiday, and not just for that! Girls are ready to rack their brains, how to make a meeting, dinner, the night is more romantic, memorable. Of course, waiting for the answer in the answer like "Thank you, dear, you have organized everything so charmingly," we do not despair, not hearing it eventually. After all, trying to make it pleasant to him, we want that in the end it was nice for us.
Seeing the beautiful guy, we almost create illusions about the fact that he can be that prince. This is the difference between us, the girls and the guys. We see a beautiful shell, sometimes smart, sometimes cheerful, sometimes reliable, but in the first couple, we do not attach importance to the filling of this shell, which may not be sweet as praline, but pretty spiced with spices. The guys see what they want, what suits them and will suit them in the end. Guys are satisfied with the demonstration of their choice, and why not, because everyone will be jealous of a beautiful girlfriend. This is the difference. Girls dream about the future, guys are satisfied with the present.
The perception of personal failures is also different. The difference is that in the thinking of girls this is working - it did not work out, well, okay, you will not think much. Do the guys - how did I fail, I should be number one, the other option does not suit me? That's the difference between us, guys and girls, we do not get hung up, a little bit of a grief, we go ahead to new adventures and achievements, they're the same guys, ready to spend days, weeks, months, that will fight like a fish on the ice, in the hope of getting what they wanted. But still, let's not forget that for the sake of achieving the goal we, the girls, are ready for any follies, scandals and provocations.
We girls differ from the guys in that we can find their own flavor. We resort to all kinds of means and methods in order to outwardly stand out from the crowd, to be remembered. We are not afraid to seem eccentric, extravagant and bold, because our goal is for us to be recognized and discussed. It suits the guys when everything goes on its own without interfering with their personal space. Of course, if they are not rock or sports stars, in this case everything is different, because in terms of PR they are ready for anything, even more frank actions than glamorous secular lions can afford. This is the difference between the sexes.
Do not forget about our constant mania. Diets! Everyone knows this word, we are afraid of it and admire it in the end. Girls are always preoccupied with their appearance, figure, the one we will make an impression at the first meeting. We are fixated on our kilograms, volumes, sizes, that we are ready to eat nothing and sit on the same water, just to get into a new black dress to conquer our man. Which in the end does not even notice the difference in whether you dropped one ill-fated kilogram, or as many as ten. In this there is a plus and minus. Plus that they see us and love such what we are. With advantages and disadvantages, but the downside is that they will not appreciate those heavy efforts we have made. Guys by nature do not bother about whether they climbed into their jeans today or not. They climbed - well, no - I'll go buy new ones, it's probably jeans have become small. No matter how funny it is, it's true. For us, the approach of the beach season says - enough to eat, take yourself in hand, forward to make a figure. For them - hooray, the beach season is open, the girls in the bikini, it does not matter that I have an ugly beer paunch. This is the difference between us, guys and girls.
Another difference between us is our relationship to each other. We are like mummies guarding our guys, we make sure they are clean, washed, shaved, neat, so that we are pleased to be with them, and it's not shame to show them to people either. Guys also play mainly the role of daddy, such an unyielding, unshakable head of the family who is responsible for everything and loves his importance. It does not matter how it manifests itself, toli in choosing a new machine, toli in choosing clothes for new role-playing games, the main thing is that their word was the last. By virtue of our cunning, we are able to use this quality of the guys, playing, talking between the lines in the end getting what we want, satisfying their own ambitions and self-satisfaction.
Among our many different and common qualities we can manage beautifully men, and they also masterfully and nicely allow us to do this with them. This is the guarantee of happiness and successful relations between us. This is the similarity and difference between guys and girls.