With age, our attitude toward sex changes, as does the attitude to those men with whom this sex happens to us. At twenty, we want to be gently held by our hand, presenting our favorite flowers and talking endlessly about our love. At thirty, I do not want to limit myself to this. At forty already, and not at all scary, if fervent talk of love is not at all.
This fact does not cause doubts in women, it is taken for granted and it is believed that it is just as natural that it should reach a man. We seldom think about what the men themselves consider normal, conducting the same dialogue with us.
20-year-old lover
He immediately sincerely confesses to you in love, invites you to the last session in the cinema, gives tender flowers, whispers something in your ear. He does not particularly listen to what you say to him (and if you answer at all), kisses you in all parts of the body, but what at this age does he really care?
First, a successful career. That is, relations and sex, of course, are also of interest, but to a much lesser extent. At 20, the man is not yet so sure of himself, in order to risk the conquest of those women whom he most wanted to conquer. Serious relationship with a single woman, a man at this age is simply not needed. There are so many luxurious options around!
Pros: a man in 20 sexual associations may even appear with the words "bedside table". He is ready to engage in sex in any place, at any time of the day and in any posture. Principles and taboos do not exist, there is no fatigue, just like special sexual preferences. Although it is better if the partner offers something new, which "the boys have not tried."
Cons: he does not understand why you need quiet music, champagne and candles. In his opinion, absolutely everything you need for good sex, you have. So romance from him does not have to wait particularly. Often a 20-year-old lover does not know what and how to do. And the more so, and how to do it to satisfy you.
30-year-old lover
You will not go to the cinema with him, because he will invite you to a posh restaurant where he will talk with you for a long time. Mainly, about myself. At the same time, he carefully listens to what you say to him on this interesting topic. He often and long looks into the eyes, generously gives flowers in a necessarily beautifully decorated expensive bouquet. You understand in advance that after dinner you will definitely be in his bed. However, he is unlikely to insist.
A man in 30 is interested in meeting a woman worthy not only to wake up next to him, but also to live. He already wants not only sex, but also relationships, sincerity and warm trust. It is at this age that a desire appears that someone should wait for him at home, and the door should not be opened with his own key. Even the beginnings of thoughts about children.
Pros: 30-year-old man already knows how to give you real pleasure. Moreover, he himself wants you to deliver it. In sex, he still has the animal passion of youth, but it is already colored in emotional tones. You will be tenderly embraced, talk to you and certainly kiss for the night. Well, if, of course, you were in his bed were not accidental, that at 30 still happens quite often.
Cons: there are practically no minuses in sex. The man has enough experience to lead you into indescribable ecstasy, he has matured enough that this delight is not confined to the bed. The only drawback of such a relationship - the standards of a 30-year-old man is very difficult to match. After all, freedom is placed on the line, and a man of 30 is ready to offer her (and himself) only to the ideal woman in his submission.
40-year-old lover
He gently holds your hand while watching the melodrama, listens to stories about your hidden things, gives you the most favorite flowers, teaches you to understand good cuisine, fashion and sex. A man in 40 yearns to find, finally, the one for which it is worth living. Consciousness of the fact that half of life is passed in solitude makes one look for a native soul that can be safely trusted.
Pros: to his 40 man probably already tried everything, in any poses and combinations, gaining life experience. This is the most gentle and quivering lover, which really puts your pleasure an order of magnitude higher than yours, assessing relationships in general and sex in particular by how well you are with him.
Cons: the passion will be rare, and in return you will receive tenderness multiplied by several hours. Those same candles and romance. And more often by candlelight, you will talk about everything in the world. Sometimes, until sex does not reach.