The first sexual experience of a woman is not only a sexual first impression, but also a moment of the birth of a woman's sensuality. In many cases, it is from the first sexual encounter that a woman has a concept in her mind about sex that accompanies her all her life.
Why is the woman's first sexual relationship the basis of her sexuality
Most frigid women explain their coldness precisely by the fact that their partners were rude during the first sexual intercourse. The virgin mentally perceives the defloration psychologically. From panic fear and horror, which can occur during rape, to the blissful and inexpressible feelings that arose when they approached their beloved person.
The first female sexual experience
For a girl, first sexual intercourse is sometimes unpleasant. At the time of rupture of the hymen, pain can be felt that can cover all other sensations. In consequence, during the second or third sexual intercourse, the necessary sensations usually appear. At the first affinity with a man, a woman can feel satisfaction from it. Defloration does not necessarily have to be realized at a time, if the pain is strong, then they can be divided into several stages. With a flexible hymen, each new attempt of a man will expand the hole. In addition, a woman's fear of pain will disappear. Inadmissible gross male persistence in the first act to prevent the occurrence in the future of serious consequences for a woman - "disgust" from sex, vaginismus.
For defloration to choose the best position, lying on the back. You can reduce the pain in a woman, but for this sexual intercourse should be performed in such a pose: the girl lies on her back across the bed, lowering her legs to the floor, at this time the man leans from both sides of her body in her arms, smoothly introites. Another pose: lying on her back, the woman under the buttocks puts a pillow, bending her knees and pressing her to her chest. This will facilitate the rupture of the hymen, ensuring its maximum tension. Much during a sexual act depends on the man. If a man will be affectionate and reverent towards his woman, the pain that can arise in a girl with a rupture of a hymen, because of a strong attraction to a man, will simply be smoothed out.
What you need to know in the women's first sexual experience
During the first sexual contact a woman often lacks natural moisturizing of the vagina. Because of this, to facilitate sexual intercourse, you need to use a special lubricant or petroleum jelly, which is applied to the glans penis. At the time of rupture, the girl usually has a slight bleeding, but you need to know that every 10th woman has bleeding. It is especially important at this time to take care of the rules of intimate hygiene. When rupturing the hymen, it is recommended to stop sexual contact, until that time, when everything does not heal. Repeated sexual intimacy can be repeated as early as 3 days after defloration. Repeated approach is usually painless.
Sexual life is recommended to begin with the use of a condom, even if the woman is confident in her man. This is necessary so that there is no pregnancy (if at the moment you are not ready for it), as well as to protect against infections. To prevent contact of the penis with the vaginal mucosa, you need to put on a condom before intercourse and remove after complete termination.
The likelihood of becoming pregnant or contracting an infection at the first intimacy with a man is quite high. A woman may have inflammation of the vagina or bladder, since her body with male microbes is first encountered. If the means of protection are ignored, the female organism becomes infected more easily than the male organism several times. In addition, diseases (most) that are sexually transmitted occur in women without symptoms, and this increases the risk of complications. About intimate hygiene a woman needs to know. Start a woman's sex life should be consciously. It is not necessary for a woman to listen to multiple friends' advice - this is only your choice and you should listen only to yourself. Do not forget that early sexual activity can lead to unwanted pregnancy and infections. Ideally, the first sexual experience of women should be conscious and acquired with a loved, affectionate and loving man.