And after that you, finally, completely exhausted, remember your lover and descend to give him even a little of his precious time. And finally, you will look at him, hoping to see a long-awaited and adored look directed towards you, full of unrestrained passion and unearthly attraction towards you. And then suddenly, looking at your beloved, you will be surprised to find that the only desire that is experienced by the source of your passion is the desire immediately, this very moment ... to fall asleep and nothing more! And what then is the woman's intimate life?
How to stop this powerful avalanche called "modern pace of life"? After all, when in the morning, without losing the charge of enthusiasm, you get to such an "adored and beloved" work, and there they demand to work "to wear out" in the name of a ghostly bright future, completely disregarding you, as a person, and squeezing "all juices" , and when you come home, you collect the pieces of mental strength that are still left in the unequal struggle called "life", then, despite such a gloomy state of things, in the depths of your soul, still there is a desire to change everything for the better, finally to begin live a full life, in particular, intimate!
Briefly about the triangles.
One of the conclusions, which is observed in a similar situation, is pronounced approximately as follows: "We spend too much time together and are already bored of each other. We need unusual, exciting and exciting feelings for the soul in order to feel the fullness of life to make the intimate life full. " And such feelings are very quickly found, but they are not sought at all by finding out the internal problems with one and only partner, but in a new relationship with another and completely another person. And, most interesting, for some reason, a new partner is always enough and strength, and time and desire. But from time to time, interfering with enjoying life, the question arises: "And for how long is all this?".
And then, quite unexpectedly, a wave of doubts and torments about the reasonableness of everything that is happening suddenly comes up, there is a feeling of desire and inability to have time "everywhere and at once". And, at this most inopportune moment, you are surprised to suddenly find out that your boundless, seemingly, forces begin to run out very quickly, your intimate life fades.
In this case, there is one remarkable and instructive parable about a man who, after he was twisted into a ram's horn, came to the sage with a request to help him.
Sage, carefully listening to all the details of such an unusual story that happened to a man, suddenly said unexpectedly: "You just need to get a cow." The man, apparently not expecting such a strange advice, began to ask the sage questions, and again began to tell in detail about his torment, thinking that the sage did not understand what was being said. However, the sage continued to insist that the peasant start a cow. Well, the man had nothing to do but listen to the sage's advice and get a cow. And so, having brought the animal, the man calmed down, thinking that now he had solved all his problems, and the woman's intimate life does not excite him.
But it was not there! Soon after the appearance of the cow, the man became even more tormented. He did not find his place and was only thinking about how to get rid of this unnecessary cow. And so, exhausted to exhaustion, the man barely reached the sage and again started complaining about his own life turned into hell. The sage again listened attentively to the man and, after a significant pause, said: "If you want to get rid of the problems - sell the cow." The man thanked the sage and went home. After thinking for a while, the person decided to follow this advice of the sage and get rid of such a hated cow. And so, selling the animal, suddenly the man found that it became much easier on his soul, he suddenly had a lot of free time and he, to his surprise found that he simply had nothing to worry about! Life has become better, calmer and more fun!
And if, after reading this instructive story, some reasonable conclusions have arisen from someone and ripe useful conclusions, then it was written not in vain. And someone who for some reason did not think about the meaning of this parable, apparently, should reflect in another way. For example,
In occasion of a romance in an intimate life of the woman.
Probably, most people already have at least a vague idea of romance, as about some magical and intangible feeling. It seems that only in a rather long-term relationship it is rather desirable than the reality that exists in reality, it is considered that the intimate life of a mature woman is deprived of this moment. To create a material form so easily escapes from the relationship of feeling, as a feeling of romance, it is necessary to connect all imagination and imagination that a person has. Although, maybe this will not be enough, and it will be necessary to create a special intimate atmosphere, imbued with a halo of mystery and idleness, then the intimate life will be brighter.
There is no doubt that the truth is that there are young people who are very keen on their own "important" problems and deeds. And when they come home and observe all or only some of the above phenomena, they can not understand and conclude what is really going on. And then, suddenly, they have an idea in the blink of an eye that maybe they are not expected here at all? Such people should be prepared in advance. In this case, both semitransparent hints and the conversation directly, in "plain text", can help. But the main thing in this business is to intrigue and stir up interest in this or that situation.
Many in search of romance in an intimate life, find a variety of options for the development of events, for example, ordering a table in a restaurant, leaving for the city, or inviting your "half" to watch a romantic movie. In principle, you can come up with a lot, you just need to assess your financial situation and, if possible, anticipate the possible reaction of your partner to a variety of intimate life.
One of my friends told me about a recent romantic evening in her family life. Soon after her husband returned from work, he found a note near the entrance that he urgently needed to go into the kitchen. Crossing the threshold of the kitchen, the husband was pleasantly surprised to find a superbly served table. But then his gaze again fell on another message, in which he urgently needed to go to the bedroom. Then my friend's husband found more and more notes and went to the balcony, then to the hall, he even sometimes wanted to look under the sofa!
Finally exhausted from the desire to find a prepared "surprise", my friend's husband finally found in the bathroom the culprit of such exhausting and long searches - his wife. Later, of course, the spouse expressed his wishes for a shorter path to his "dream." But, despite this, the husband of this lady was delighted and pleasantly surprised by such a rich imagination of her lover. Thus, the intimate life of this woman has become more diverse.
Briefly about spontaneity
It is quite certain that strategy and tactics are a good thing, but we should not forget that there is an even more interesting and fascinating occupation - presentation. As a consequence of enthusiasm and unlimited imagination, she is able to perform miracles. In the event that you are busy with business and meet your lover only at presentations, in restaurants, at all kinds of parties, then, if you want, you can take advantage of these tips. However, do not wait for better times. Because when you, after all the entertainment, in the evening, tired and exhausted, will return, at last, home, then you will no longer be engaged in making love. In this case, the woman's intimate life will be more scarce.
Very exciting and exciting is the idea to merge into ecstasy in a secluded corner of not any kind of presentation, or an official party. A fervid gaze, a smile, a barely perceptible movement of beautiful eyes, enveloped in a beckoning "povoloka," an imperceptible touch under a table, cause a reciprocal reaction and, already, reciprocity is achieved. And if you want to, then you can imagine that you are hardly familiar and you have only one dream - at whatever cost to tempt the man of your own dreams - this is another option to make a bright intimate life of the groom. And indeed, in fact, it acts like a catalyst on many.
On intersecting lines.
Remember that you have your own way, and your lover also has it. Each of us builds his life on his own, without the help of others.
But how often your paths intersect will depend only on you. Maybe they are two parallel straight lines that will never, under any circumstances, intersect, maybe only in a dream. And, maybe, these are two intertwined lines forming a fairy-tale and magic pattern.
You can invent enough excuses about the fact that the work takes 24 hours a day, that the household is exhausted completely. However, this is only your life and your decision. Try to gradually change it. Try to organize and plan your life in such a way as to find time for joint walks and other interesting activities. After all, it is really possible to find half an hour during the working day in order to meet and exchange the latest news. You can just talk on the phone without touching on the topic of the case and avoiding an exhaustive analysis of the events. Let your voice become soft and gentle, which excites, beckons and promises a lot. And then your man will be ready to give up everything to go home as soon as possible, to his beloved and make your intimate life unforgettable. Well, you need only not to miss the right moment, prepared for it by all the methods known to you.
However, in all this there is only one "but". Ideally, of course, situations are considered when the desire is mutual. But often it turns out that the coincidence of ideas about how good it will be for both lovers does not happen. It happens that you just do not have the mood, and then the mood changes with the partner, then the intimate life will be boring. It happens, and one should not make tragedy out of it and exhaust yourself with unnecessary doubts. You can try a variant of seduction. Do not worry if you do not succeed - next time you will definitely be lucky. Unsuccessful days happen to everyone. However, you can not coerce either yourself or your partner - this is certainly a losing option, intimate life does not benefit from this. Remember that you need not only to be able to say "no" in time, but also to anticipate the wishes of your lover. The main thing is not to hurry, because life is long and you will have many opportunities to realize all your secret desires and mutual aspirations.
Remember that when talking about falling in love, you can not have any compulsion in mind, since it is quite variable and sometimes catches us up completely unexpectedly. However, everyone hopes to experience it. And for this you need sometimes just to trust the will of circumstances and all. Good luck to you!