In our time it is no longer fashionable to marry at an early age, only graduating from the institute or not even having time to enter it. Modern girls differ enviable purposefulness and independence. And before they marry, they want to live for themselves a lot, get higher education, make a career, provide for life and get rid of financial problems, so to speak, stand on their own feet. And having met that only care about only love itself, and not about life. But everyone has his own life and truth, his relationships and views on life. The similarity is only in one, that every girl sooner or later seeks to legitimize relations.
Practice suggests that after marriage it is better to live separately from parents. In the house there should be only one mistress, and in the house of parents of the husband the mistress will always be the mother-in-law. Well, and about living together with his mother-in-law nothing to say is not necessary, because it's not for nothing that so many sayings and anecdotes have been invented about the relations between my son-in-law and mother-in-law. In the relationship of a young family, you should not interfere with other people, even the closest. With a nice paradise and in a hut, and a separate residence even in a small apartment will foster family life.
It is necessary to be ready for the fact that life after marriage changes and very much. The candy-bouquet period led to its logical goal, the girl was conquered and will soon become a wife. Now the girl has additional responsibilities: the creation of comfort in the house, maintaining cleanliness, cooking. After the marriage, the girls have little time for themselves, for meetings with friends and entertainment. The man is not so attentive as in the period of courtship. He knows that you are his conquered and legitimate trophy. It is at the initial stages of living together and begin to conflict on the domestic issue. For these reasons, civil marriage, joint living without legalization of relations is so widespread today. Civil marriage allows you to get to know each other closer, to get used to each other in everyday life.
But do not panic. First of all, life after marriage depends on both spouses. Family life is a huge work. And it will turn into a routine or not - it depends only on the spouses. Life after marriage is based not only and not so much on love, as on mutual compromise, the ability to listen to your half and hear what you are told, and not what you want to hear. It is very important for a girl not to stop in her development. Very often after marriage, the girls devote themselves exclusively to the spouse, directing all their interests and aspirations only to him. But in fact your husband has grown fond of you not that you the wonderful mistress and the keeper of the center. He saw in you an interesting person with his world and interests. The wisdom of a woman is to be able, after marriage, to combine care for her husband with attention to herself, with work on her own physical and mental development.
Life after marriage is, only it is different. But what it will be, good or bad, it depends on you. The main thing to remember is that your love needs to be supported by mutual respect, discussion of problems, a constant compromise of interests. Remember the well-known saying: "The husband is the head, and the wife is the neck". A woman must be wise and strong, because everything is in her hands and should not be lowered!