Strangely enough, but to leave in English without farewell and any explanations there that is peculiar not only to women. Men are also, quite realistically, capable of such an "escape". After that, you even call, at least write, but no good. The man decided - the man did. Abandoned to the mercy of fate, of course, a woman will shed tears every day and call him the very last words. But here it does not help at all. It is always worth remembering that if in the midst of a novel a man disappears, then he has special reasons for this, which we will try and find out.
To begin with, many representatives of the stronger sex, having decided for themselves that they no longer want a relationship with a particular woman, consider the mere disappearance from her life as the best option. Here it is worth noting the fact that men are afraid of our emotions and hysterics. This is something against which it is very difficult to go. They know that any sort of clarification of relationships and especially their, immediate, gap, a woman perceives much harder than a man. Therefore, by avoiding this all, the man, simply, silently leaves, believing that it will be better for both sides.
Also, a man can, simply, thus raise his inner male ego. Here, for example, he gets acquainted with a woman, ties up with her a strong relationship, and then at their very height just disappears. In this situation, there are two points of view. The first is that this is all he does just to raise his reputation before himself. You are his next tick, and his escape is just a smooth transition, to another, the same as you, from which he will make another sudden disappearance. The second point of view says that he could simply wind himself up in that, and whether you can find it and return it. If you do not do anything for this, he will just think that it means that this is not destiny and you are not meant to be together. But, here it is worth noting, before you walk around his house and calculate when he appears, think about whether you need a type of man whose whole life is built on something that would prove something to him.
Another woman, and what is not the reason. He met her, in parallel meeting with you, and decided that she was just what he needed. To explain to you that he is going to another woman, in his opinion - this is a waste of time. And in general, you are not husband and wife. A long divorce and separation of property to you, thank God, does not threaten. Therefore, in order to once again not to offend you and not to injure your psyche, and, at the same time, self-esteem, it is better to do just that. As they say, without unnecessary noise and screaming. Here, we can relate and the fact that it may not be necessary to escape to another woman, he can just run away from you. The reasons here, banal and vital, fell out of love, I realized that you are absolutely different people and because of this disappointed in you. Your way of life, work, career does not correspond to his status and so on. And, to explain something, he just is not used to or thinks for granted. So, that think about, directly, your behavior and reveal your personal shortcomings or just compare your status and lifestyle - with it. And, here, I think, much will fall into place.
Just his abrupt withdrawal can carry a simple fear or fear of responsibility. Remember how often you talked to him about your future together in the evenings, or even just hinted at it, that they say, you can not marry. Perhaps he did not even think about it at all. By the way, it will be appropriate to note that all male individuals are freedom-loving beings and our talk about marriage may simply seem to them nothing more than a nightmare. So he got scared, deciding to give the back. Or maybe he himself noticed that both of you have already gone too far in their relationship and here, the result suggests itself. Or marriage, or break, as they say, there is nowhere else to pull. Here it is, salvation from responsibility - a sharp and inexplicable disappearance.
And, as the last explanation of this act, it can be said that sometimes men do so to maintain good relations, bypassing all explanations and clarification of relations there. And they want to save this relationship for what would one day, will appear again in your life. And, besides, his appearance will be as unexpected as the preceding disappearance. Of course, this does not mean that the male magician and his main trick is "appear or disappear." Simply, he is at that moment, got tangled up in his feelings or desires and therefore decided not to discuss going into the shadows to understand himself and make some right decision. But to take back such a fugitive or not, it's up to you. By the way, he is unlikely to tell you that he did it because of his internal uncertainty. So, be ready for an interesting fairy tale, about the reasons for his sudden departure. And yet, in the latter case, do not torture too many illusions and hopes that every man must necessarily return unexpectedly. No, it's very rare cases, so wait and hope, it's not worth it. Start a new life, and just forget it. Let such a man become your unpleasant past.
Bridging the line, under all of the above, I want to say only one thing, the main reason for the fact that at the height of the novel the man disappears is the fear of our reaction to his attempt to explain something. Therefore, flight is the easiest and easiest way to put a fat point in a relationship. These are they, our men, and they are always worth waiting for something unexpected and inexplicable. So be ready for anything. Never chase after such a man, let him be by his, just means it was not your destiny.