The most important thing for a man is the independence of sex from room and time. Believe me, sex "on Fridays and Saturdays strictly from nine to ten o'clock in the evening with the lights off and under the blanket" - this is absolutely not something that he likes. Even if your man is conservative, and claims that he does not expect any surprises from sex, he still dreams about something unusual in his heart. Do not immediately rush into extreme adventures, limit your own apartment. What, for example, does not fit the chair or dining table immediately after his return from work?
Almost all men hate when a woman tries to talk during sex. The fact is that men are rarely able to perform several actions at once, and this is one of their differences from women. We are really able to enjoy sex at the same time as telling the beloved what an interesting film we saw with a friend. Men are simply incapable of this, and when we start talking with them during sex, either they can not follow the conversation or are distracted from the "case." Both are annoying - which is natural.
Many men expect that during sex a woman will be ready for oral caresses, which for them - one of the most enjoyable forms of making love.
No one likes to suppress his initiative, and those are more a man during sex. If he is attuned to this, let him be active, strong, let him start the game. But if at the moment he does not think about sex, nothing will stop you from seducing him. Many men expect this from their partner in sex, but they are embarrassed to say so.
And any man really wants to give pleasure to his beloved. Repeat to him more often that sex with him is important for you - a rare man does not expect these words.
It is worth remembering that a woman during sex gets energy, and a man - gives. That's why, after lovemaking, we are ready to fly, like on wings, to turn around and hug the whole world and pet your loved one to death. But a man who really got an orgasm, either falls asleep, or begins to engage in extraneous affairs. This does not mean that he does not like you, or that he did not like it today. It means exactly that he really got an orgasm. A man secretly expects from you that after a wonderful sex, you will gently kiss him, and not try to strangle in your arms. Why does not he talk about it? Most likely, he is afraid to offend his beloved, because he knows how important caress for a woman.
But the man does not expect such a lot of affection. He just does not need him at this moment. The same goes for foreplay. For a woman, it is extremely important, but a man, to feel the excitement, an average of 30 seconds.
All this is expected from sex, the average man. However, it is important to remember that there are no middle people - we are all unique. That's why the best way to find out what exactly your beloved man expects from sex is to talk frankly with him on this topic. In addition, this conversation has another advantage - a man will know what you want from sex you. Then you will be able to achieve true harmony in a loving relationship.