Corner for baby
Approximately one and a half years, girls begin to identify themselves by gender. This usually happens in the game. Why do girls play in the "daughter-mother"? Most likely, because in nature nature is laid the desire to care for someone., Since childhood she unconsciously feels that she must fulfill her mission of procreation. And the game for her is a kind of training It's not accidental that education starts with ... Shopping of toys.This does not mean that the daughter needs to buy only dolls.However, she does not need to play the cars because she needs her corner with toy utensils, furniture, pillows and blankets. nest its nest. In this game, a child experiences many important things, learns, learns the rules of behavior in society, and besides, the game is a mirror for parents.Try the daughter and you will notice that in the game she uses your words , gestures, manner of communication.We are not perfect, and with the help of the child you can see your mistakes in upbringing.
Clean house
From an early age (about a year), involve the girl in doing housework together. Take the trouble to buy her a mop, whisk. Try to start with cleaning in the form of a game. At the same time, gradually accustom to the accuracy, ask to finish the case. It is not necessary to forbid the crumbs to do their "master" business - let it wash, vacuum, even if it does not work at first. Give the baby to contribute to homework. It is clear that my mother will do everything faster and better herself, for example, she will sweep the same floors. But if you forbid the girl to help, she can form a complex within herself, there will be self-doubt. And in addition it will for a long time repel the desire to do household chores. There is also a problem of lack of communication with children. As it usually happens: Mom resorts from work, and immediately to the kitchen - prepares food, then erases. To deal with a child is simply no time, but if he climbs under his arm, he is simply dismissed. But try to do everything together. Perhaps, so cooking and cleaning will take more time, but the baby will have fun and practice! And my mother immediately kills not even two, but three birds with one stone: she will do her homework, she will teach her a lot and compensate for the lack of communication.
Graft the taste
Sometimes it's a big secret for moms - how to dress a girl? Here, oddly enough, it is worth giving the child the right to choose. For example, a girl before two years wore only panties. Once given to her mother's dress below the knee little girl really liked. Since then, she has asked to buy only such dresses, "like princesses", and refuses to wear anything else. In such cases, of course, you can force on the child what you like, but is it worth it? You will spoil the mood and he and himself, and, moreover, imposing one's opinion on anything will not lead to anything.It may be that when a daughter grows up, she will not be able to pick up her own clothes and will constantly need someone's advice.Insure that she wear certain colors and styles, it is not necessary, but to explain which shoes it is important to instill a good taste in a girl.Explain that there are everyday and festive clothes, tell us what is the difference.Try to treat things with care.Usually girls experience if they accidentally tear or dirty the dress. It's not scary, if it does not work out right away, but the baby will appreciate the mother's work and will be more careful.Many parents almost dozes up to the tenth grade braid daughters. Meanwhile the girl already in one and a half year is capable to be combed itself. Show how it's done, tell me what hair styles will suit her. You and yourself will get rid of unnecessary worries, and the daughter will become more independent. There must be a small fashionista and her own jewelry. And my mother will tell you how to properly pick it up alongside. Mom's cosmetics work on the daughter magically. The baby sees how her mother is painted, and she also wants to be attractive. Do not hide makeup from the baby. Better explain how to use all these things. Let the girl will have her own makeup: hygienic lipstick, children's perfume and nail polish. Taste and taste again. To educate him as a child is one of the primary tasks in the education of a girl. In the future, she will not only choose outfits, but also make up an interior in the house. And there - and develop the taste of his daughter.
Secret of the first kiss
Both parents must participate in the upbringing of the girl. But the leading role, perhaps, belongs yet to my mother. She will dedicate her daughter to women's sacraments. And you can do this only if you trust each other. Here is one example. The girl, coming from the kindergarten, confessed that she was kissing the boy. The first kiss is a quivering event, which remains in the memory for years, and it is valuable that the child shared it with his mother. To earn the child's trust is not easy. Children do not forgive injustice, deception. Be with your daughter frank and sincere. Do not you want your daughter to have secrets from you? In different ways, show your love and respect. In turn, the father for the girl is first and foremost a security guarantor and a good friend. With him, she feels protected. With Dad you can allow various pranks (even ride it on horseback), play ball. It is important that the father paid much attention to his daughter, gave on March 8 not only toys, but flowers, thereby showing that she sees in her a little lady. However, you do not need to pamper and patronize your daughter too much. Otherwise, she faces difficulties with the choice of her husband. American actress Lisa Minnelli, for example, admitted that she could not find herself for a long time: no candidate could stand comparison with a caring father who did not refuse anything to her. It is proved that a woman chooses for herself the companions of a person resembling a parent or absolutely the opposite - it all depends on what kind of relationship was in the family. If the baby does not have a father, the example of a "real husband" can be, for example, a grandfather or an uncle.
Body and soul hygiene
One of the main points in how to educate a girl is hygiene. The girl needs to be taught to hygiene from the diaper. And here parents often face difficulties, because children are curious, they open the world around themselves every minute (and in themselves too). It is better if the baby hears from her mother the answers to her questions on anatomy, from her, and not from the neighbor's girl, learns about the structure of the body. No less important is the hygiene of the soul. What is the ideal of a woman in modern society? Kind, affectionate, patient, able to empathize. A woman of the XXI century must also be erudite, be able to stand up for oneself. How to cultivate these qualities in a girl? First of all, by personal example. Somehow the child adopts the vision of the mother's world. If you allow yourself to be tough, sharp towards your spouse, the girl will also behave with a future partner. Children reflexively try to be like their parents, a young imitator inspires a living example, rather than exhortations and educational conversations. But often adults, calling for one, do the opposite. The child does not believe so much with his ears, but with his eyes. Bring your daughter to the world of the arts, teach you how to sing and dance, draw, compose verses, and introduce the rules of etiquette. Remember that children require a lot of warmth and love. But love must be reasonable. Because, whether you can understand the essence of the secret for moms, how to educate a girl, and what requirements you will present to your daughter, it depends what woman will be taken from your hands by her future husband.