Treason wife with lover

Treason ... This terrible word terrifies many couples. As you know, men change more often, hiding behind their "polygamous" - they say, it was conceived by nature to prolong the human race. But the betrayal of his wife with his lover, the overwhelming number of men react very negatively up to the inevitable divorce. After all, the wife - she and the mother of children, and the keeper of the hearth, bereginya. And often fully justifying their "adventures on the side", the idea that he was "changed by his wife" can lead a man into a violent neurotic disorder. And yet, as sociologists have shown, at the present time, the betrayal of the wife is a fairly common phenomenon.

So what's the difference between female and male betrayal? Why the representativeness of the fair sex, correcting all the canons and foundations, are increasingly looking for love comforts in bed, not with a legitimate husband, but with a lover? Let's try to analyze. As a rule, a woman changes, basically, "for love". Unlike men, in which the male's instinct is strong, a woman in 90 out of 100 cases does not look for casual connections, but for trusting relationships, which, of course, hurts her husband's pride. "She does not love me anymore", "her lover is better than me", "she will leave me and go to her lover" - about such thoughts do not give rest to a man. And we must admit that they are not far from the truth.

After all, if a woman decides to take such a step, it means that her family life does not suit her in anything - either a lack of communication and understanding, or routine and lack of thrill, or dissatisfaction in intimate life, or material problems. And perhaps all of the above. And now the phrase "betrayal of a wife with a lover" ceases to seem to her wild and depraved - after all, life is one! And such a lady "goes to all serious" - especially the lack of communication with people of the opposite sex, many women now do not have: colleagues, business partners, trainers, masseurs, waiters. Many of them are quite attractive, especially service workers.

In addition, women want to feel attractive and desirable! And the "native husband", except for football and the Internet, does not notice anything, and gives flowers only on March 8, and forgot about the compliments after the first anniversary of the wedding. By the way, a very part of a woman is quickly disappointed in her new chosen ones, at first such loved ones, and with feelings of remorse return to their husbands. But time goes on, nothing changes, and they again look for a new object for love.

So what can you advise your husbands to prevent the betrayal of your wife with your lover? The tips are very simple, but in practice, alas! are rarely performed.
The first tip is more attention. These are compliments, and gifts "not about", and evaluation of a new dress or hairstyle, and interest in her work and hobbies.
The second council is more romantic. Away from the routine and routine - they are known to kill relationships. Outings for a picnic, going to the cinema, a romantic candlelight evening - all this is so necessary for every woman.

The third tip is diversity in intimate life. It is not necessary to reread the Kama Sutra, learning new poses, but if you give your wife, for example, new stockings or a seductive dressing gown, you will be surprised at how much her sensuality will increase. Or try sex in an unusual place (of course, observing the rules of decency!). Literature on this subject is now the sea - experiment!

The fourth council is joint hobbies. It can be anything - just to be together. Perhaps your wife will like fishing.
And the main thing is to understand that if a couple has a harmonious relationship and there is love, then no one will look for adventures on the side. What for it is necessary, if there is a constant favorite partner which you know, as itself, with which to you it is cozy and comfortable?