If the husband hurts

If the husband hurts, then do not waste your energy to remake it. You just run out of yourself, and, believe me, it's impossible to change an adult without his consent.

Can not change it, change yourself. A man behaves the way you let him. Direct your strength to improve your qualities. This will help you to establish not only family relationships, but also other aspects of your life.

Learn to reasonably treat any situation with your husband, even if it is a conflict. This quality will help you find a common language with him and look at the situation differently.

The quarrel is an integral part of family life. They can also bear a lot of useful information. Your husband is not a stranger to you, swearing with you, maybe trying to convey to you something important that will help you.

If you every time perceive any statement of the husband, as a personal insult, constantly take offense at the spouse, then the end of your relationship can come when you do not expect it at all.

Learn to adequately perceive criticism.

Being offended for no reason is stupid and this is the lot of fools. But, if the husband hurts and offends, indeed, is not deserved, then what? It is worthwhile to talk and explain to him that his manner of talking to you is unpleasant and offensive to your feelings. If a man respects you, then he will certainly listen to your requests and try not to do so any more.

But, if the husband offends what constantly changes you, does not put you in anything, insults and humiliates your own dignity. Then, there are only two exits.

Or, review your relationship with your spouse, and maybe come to the fact that you do not have a future. When a man loves, loves for real, he will show concern, respect for his woman. Never allow insults and humiliations in your address. The spouse for that and the spouse to be for you a support and support. If, after coming home, after work, your husband meets with reproaches and discontent - why do you need it? Give up such a life. Are you pleased to listen to unflattering statements addressed to you or to get more and more unpleasant actions on his part each time?

The second way to solve the problem. Perhaps that your husband leads in this way - offends you - not just so. And you are guilty of this! Sometimes, the weakness and misconduct of a woman unleash her hands, and gives the right to the man to behave in this way.

I repeat, the man behaves as a woman allows. Forgiving once, however, so that the man did not understand and did not repent of his fault, you give him the right to repeat the act and consider himself to be unpunished in the future.

Reconsider your behavior. Most likely, you do not have enough sense of self-confidence or maybe you are afraid to lose this man and stay alone?

When you learn to love yourself and respect, then others, and first of all your husband, look at you in a new way.

Do not be afraid to be tough with your husband, do not be afraid to express your opinion and discontent. Disenchanted, daring, you can put a man in place. Believe me, it is sometimes very necessary for them, even if they do not understand this.

Discover the woman in whom there lives the certainty that she is worthy of happiness, love and respect. You deserve to be carried on your hands.

Every woman lives a bitch, try to find it in yourself. By changing yourself, you will enjoy the change that awaits you.

Your man will understand everything and revise his behavior. When he sees that his wife is a strong and self-assured person who does not want to swallow all his grievances - you will grow in his eyes. And, with an equal opponent, a man will not allow himself boorish behavior.