Reasons for jealousy

Everyone knows that jealousy is a bad feeling, which is not customary to demonstrate. They laugh at jealous people, they feel sorry for them, they are treated like unbalanced people, and psychologists do not get tired of studying them as guinea pigs. But, if not cunning, it becomes obvious that in the role of Othello, at least once in his life was each of us. Is there an excuse for this feeling? In fact, yes.

1) The quality of sex.
Surprisingly, in couples in which there is a pathological jealous, the most amazing sex happens. That's where there are multiple orgasms and passions. It would seem incredible that after grand scandals people can be so passionate, but scientists explain everything. The fact is that stress helps release adrenaline into the bloodstream. Even when the quarrel subsides, the blood bubbles for a long time, and sex is a natural way of detente. True, such an addiction to good sex after a good quarrel can cost you not a small number of nerve cells that will not recover after the tenth orgasm of the night.

2) Development of abilities.
Jealousy presupposes the presence of at least one occasion. If your man is not a complete womanizer, then the cause will not be easy to find. You will have to closely monitor your loved one, look for arguments that are difficult to refute. Of course, it's not a fact that you find something, but you will definitely find out about your man a lot of new things. And this new can work to strengthen your pair, suddenly, you will discover in it those qualities that lead you into ecstasy. However, with this approach, there is always the risk of digging up such a skeleton in the cabinet, after which there can be no talk of any relationship.

3) In the female style.
Arrange scenes of jealousy can both women and men. It is not yet known which of us is more jealous, but it is understandable, whose feelings are expressed more violently. Scandal over an imaginary rival - it's so feminine. In what your beloved can see. And the extra proof of their own femininity has not hurt anyone yet. Unless, of course, you can not cross the line, behind which the gentle female essence lies in wait for the nature of the market.

4) Workout.
Jealousy can be justified also by the fact that you remind your lover that, despite the fact that you have been together for a long time, you have not ceased to be afraid of losing it. It is very flattering to men and helps to keep them in good shape. True, if you overplay a stick, it can be the reason for his flight. Or the reason to move from imaginary adultery to real - that was for what to receive scolding.

5) Fall in love again.
Perhaps you would like to be jealous of a man, but you can not force yourself. No matter how you imagine him in someone else's embrace, it seems to you or funny or impossible. Jealousy "for prevention" will give you a chance to immerse yourself in these emotions, to believe in them. And already being jealous, you can suddenly understand how much you love your man and how really you are afraid that he will leave for another. Only here is the great risk that from a prudent and happy woman you will turn into a suspicious fury.

You should know that, despite the fact that now it is said around the world that jealousy is a sign of bad character, it is absolutely normal and peculiar to very many people. For example, mankind became jealous of each other only when it rose to a fairly high level of development. In times of community - tribal system, our ancestors did not have such stupidities. Does it make sense to be like them in this?
In addition, jealousy no worse than tears helps to get rid of stress, unless it becomes a mania. Then jealousy will cause depressions and hysterics. And know that according to the statistics of scientists, men are jealous of us on average 2 times more often. So do not hesitate to express emotions!