If a man is a woman, as a child, for this, there are probably some prerequisites on the part of the woman herself at a certain stage of the relationship. I suggest you consider all these stages described below and choose the one that suits you and find out the reason and what to do about it.
So, stage number one is "candy-bouquet". You, as an advanced girl, probably know what it is, so I will not explain for a long time. This stage is absolutely all people who had at least some romantic relationship. If a man treats a woman as a child at this stage, then, most likely, his intentions are by no means serious. He can give you trinkets, pamper delicacies, call "my baby" with friends, and you in some way it is certainly nice. But! As soon as you try to find out or express some idea, offer something for your relationship or offer your help, then you hear in response: "Well, you can understand this! My little girl, do not load yourself brains, better at this money, go buy yourself a new dress ", then you need to seriously think. Most likely, for this subject you are just a toy, a pleasant upgrade to yourself. The men are married to those who are respected and listened to, so you need to either know his true intentions or leave.
Stage number two - lapping. Here, as a rule, serious relations begin with all the pluses and minuses, lapping, etc. At this stage, you recognize all the qualities of each other. And if in this period a man begins to treat you as a child, then I must ask you a question: who is in your relationship the chief? If the role of the ruler belongs to you, then this attitude of a man smacks of irony. Perhaps this is how he tries to make it clear to you that his ego is hurt, that he should rule in the pair. Most likely, he tries to tame your ardor a little.
If in your relationship the main man, then his attitude towards you, as a child is commendable. So he shows you his love and affection, care and secretly promises to take care of you. But if in any questions does not consider it necessary to consult with you, and any of your comments turns, for example, into a joke, then you need to talk with him and try to explain that since you are together, you should listen to each other and respect opinion of each other. But tenderness and care is also very important, especially when it comes from your beloved side. So before you blame him for not being serious about you at this stage, try to make sure that you do not exaggerate. Think about it - it's so nice when you are ready to forgive any whim!
Stage three - the family. If this period refers to your relationship, then accept my congratulations. To reach this, only a few couples succeed. And if your man at this stage of the relationship shows to you his father's tenderness and care, then it's great. Because in a stable relationship passion and ardor give way to mutual respect, loyalty and affection, and since your man has an infinite tenderness along with it, comments are superfluous.
By the way, I was so interested in this topic that I decided to conduct a survey on the social network among my friends and acquaintances, both among girls and among guys. As a result of my, perhaps not 100% accurate calculations, such a picture loomed here: among the guys, only 20 percent of the respondents I (including my man) answered that the attitude towards the girl as a child is a manifestation on their part of a huge love , cares and needs for a girl; 75 percent answered that they either treat a girl who wants to teach something, or the man himself, sorry, a fool who did not play enough in his childhood. Here I can not but attach an answer that best describes the majority of the respondents: "If a man refers to a woman as a child, then he is not a man. To her (M) should be treated as to G. Without any nuns there, and the attitude as a child should be manifested to his (M) younger friend, lonely hanging below the belt. " Here so. Well, the remaining 5 percent said that what a girl - so to her and are. I want to note right away that the average age of 75 percent of the respondents is 20, 20 percent is 28, and 5 percent is 18. Therefore, I concluded that more mature men really appreciate the fair sex more than their younger relatives.
The girls responded unanimously that once a man treats a woman as a child, then take care of her, loves and bears responsibility for her actions. The average age of the girls surveyed is 20 years. Here such here statistics.
Well, personally, I think that if you are treated like a child, then from here you need to take advantage. Far from each of us can boast of the fact that the man of the soul in it does not chaet, wears his hands, pampers, calls gentle nicknames and so on. I'm pretty sure that even your friends are somewhat jealous of you, because many more men treat us as tender, as domestic servants, which can be deducted for a minor oversight. Any problem can be solved by talking frankly with one's half, immediately placing all the points over "i" and openly voicing their claims. In addition, we often notice the bad than the good, but in this case - care and devotion can be taken for disrespect and distrust - "What we have - do not store, lose - crying." The most important thing in a relationship is to express your displeasure and discuss it with a partner. Trust your chosen one, and then in your relationship there will always be love and mutual understanding.