The reasons for the late return of the husband home can be many. It depends not so much on the circumstances as on the habits in one way or another respond to changes in life. There are few such habits, and we will consider the basic ones, so that you can choose the most suitable option for your husband. In accordance with these habits of men can be divided into several types.
Ostrich
"Ostrich" likes to hide his head in the sand and wait for an unfavorable period. The new role of the father of his family frightens him, he seeks to communicate with free friends, because he subconsciously fears "house arrest" after the birth of the child. In this case, confidential conversation can help. Tell your husband that after your baby's birth your life will be full of interesting meetings and travels, because when the baby is born, you will have good helpers: grandmothers, grandfathers or maybe even a nanny.
Mole
"Mole" does not see happy prospects after the birth of a child. He is sure that only a solid monetary accumulation will ensure the happiness and well-being of the family. He goes into the work, forgetting that his wife needs his moral support. Overtime work can undermine his health, so it is better if you together make up a family budget. Do not inflate it, moderate your appetites. In a frank conversation with her husband, say that your child needs a healthy father. Use the weekend to spend more time in the fresh air, walk around the pool, practice a few exercises of pair gymnastics, preferably a specialist's assistant. This gymnastics will help not only to strengthen family relations, but also to facilitate childbirth.
Tester
"Tester" checks the strength of your senses and the strength of the nervous system. This habit could be developed in his childhood, when he observed the relations of the parents: if the father was late at work, then the family life stopped. He wants to be such a significant figure in your family. If you react violently to the late return and reproach the husband, his subconscious will receive a signal - "He loves!" I do not urge you to be indifferent, but I recommend asking yourself: "What would it do if he was, for example, on a business trip?" . Of course, the answers can be quite different, but I suggest you take up the case. Read the book that you did not have time before. Arriving at home and finding you behind an interesting concept, which you gladly tell him, your husband will not receive the usual reinforcement of his expectations and will understand that to test your love is meaningless. When the husband comes home, immediately leave your occupation, tell how you missed him and spend evening together.
Avenger
"Avenger" punishes for "bad" behavior. He realized that you are completely dependent on his presence, you can not organize yourself and do business. Last week he did not like that you talked for a long time on the phone with your mother. He will avenge the lack of attention to his person by late return home. If the case is always so, it is an alarming signal - you have not managed to become a respected person even in your family. In the future, you can develop similar relationships with children, they will poke you around and use them as a cook or a cleaner. While it's on, do self-education. Read books on personal growth, start learning a foreign language or embroidering a cross.
Regardless of what tactics you choose, follow the rule: a man is another person. His place in society is determined by the peculiarities of his psyche. Some women seem that the life of men is easier, no, it's just different.
The man is the creator of material life on a spiritual basis, which is built by a woman. So our life, dear women, was entirely created by us. If you live together recently, consider the impact on your beloved man of his mother, sister, other significant for him (do not be afraid!) Women. Meet them or ask about them in detail. Perhaps he was reabsorbed by my grandmother? Take from her a recipe for pies to sometimes pamper.
They say that the husband is always the youngest child in the family. Many women laugh at such a statement only after many years before they "get" the truth of this statement. Guided by this statement, you will love your husband the way he wants. Notice, not you, but he!
Save the love easily, if you both understand that no one owes anything to anyone, but can do it if he wants. Create a friendly atmosphere in the family. Create a house where your husband will return every day.
Be happy!