Mistress is a man on the side. If a man has a wife, then his mistress is his second wife, but with whom you can spend your time better. Many people now thought about sex. And rightly so. Men do not have enough variety, so they find it themselves. And the most surprising thing is that mistresses, in general, set themselves up on the plan of his wife, and, if that, are ready to replace the current one. But they are doing everything right, because if the current one does not cope, then some kind of replacement is needed. Here's a man finds her and finds.
In principle, it's still the same wife, just not official. She can also cook, wash, clean. What is good about this relationship? And the fact that a man can relax a little, have fun. A woman should also relax a little, becoming someone's mistress. This is quite natural. Well, there's nothing wrong with that.
Let's begin, probably, with our main theme, that is "How to behave to a man with a mistress? ". Here the recipe is very simple. We will discuss it in more detail, but now only the main details. You have to give your mistress a lot of time, allocate money, well, in general - to love her, but not the way you love your wife. You should understand that with your mistress you will get everything just like with your wife. You just understand that this process is irreversible. Wife you really love. And you will never leave her. A mistress - this is so, little things. If something suddenly goes wrong, you can immediately drop it, because such as it - a lot, and plus all, you still have a wife.
In general, this is a rather interesting question, it is not even clear how to answer it. The very essence of this issue is not clear, because you can have a mistress for different purposes. And under the word "have", we did not mean what you first thought.
Here, look. If you need a mistress solely for a serious relationship, then you need to behave very gently with her. Give her everything she asks for. But look, do not bend the stick, or else she can start commanding you, which sometimes happens. If you have everything with her seriously, then tell her that you have a wife, well, you want to divorce her, because you fell in love with another. In most cases, it will support your decision.
Another situation is if you have a child in your family. In principle, we think that you yourself will consider everything logically. You should understand that leaving your wife alone with a child will be very mean on your part, so it's better not to hurry and think things over. As for the mistress ... It all depends on her character, feelings and other important factors. If she is very fond of children, then it's best not to mention with her that you have a family. And if you want, then do not mention the child. But for a long time you will not keep it secret. If you suddenly decide to leave your wife, both your women will want to get to know each other. And then the whole truth will come up. There is no rules of conduct with his mistress will not help. If you have a good family, then it's better not to upset her. It's best to behave with your mistress the way you want it. You do not have to do everything for her. Just relax. It will be much better.
Now let's talk about the features of behavior, but when the goals you have are completely serious. Love her much better than your wife. Talk, be interested in all her problems. If she asks you for money, give her. Go with her for shopping. Prepare her delicious food. This will help to make your relationship much stronger. The main thing - do not bring her to places where you are well aware, as the information will reach his wife, and you will move earlier than you expected. Although, maybe it will be for the best. Spend on her as much as possible of your valuable time, this will definitely help you to establish relations with her.
But again, back to the beginning. Why do you need it? Think carefully about everything, because if you make the wrong decision, everything turns out to be not the best sideways for you, believe me.
A very frequent reason for "getting" a mistress is sex. So we need to figure out who the mistress is. Understand, this is not a prostitute. This is a person who is ready to support you at a difficult moment, well, he expects the same from you. It's quite normal. You do not pay her for the meetings. You just live in kindness and peace. Yes, it's hard to say, but that's it.
Some simply do not understand the meaning of the word "Mistress", they think that this is the same prostitute, but she does not need to pay. If you are such a person, then you do not understand how to behave properly with your mistress. You should also remember that until a man tells a girl that she is not alone, she will think that everything is serious. That is, she, without knowing it, became a mistress.
There are, of course, girls who become mistresses of their own free will. But there are not so many, and they do it for the sake of money. Here it is already possible to say that such a girl is not a mistress. Well, not a prostitute, because it performs completely different functions, because ... It is better not to fall into such hands, they can ruin your marriage, "eat" money, and after all this - quit. You do not need it, do you? Therefore, we give you such advice, they should help you.
But if we tell you frankly, it's better not to change your wife, if she does not change you. If she does not ask you if you are changing her, then she definitely does not change. Because, who asks such questions, he himself is not without sin - and in principle, this rule even works. Why? A person simply begins to understand that if he did so himself, then he / she can. So you ask such stupid questions. This is what will be the advice in the end. Do not ever ask such a "stupid" question to your wife / girl, and then you will have more chances to stay unnoticed.
We hope that our advice will help you. Follow all the basic and main rules and live happily.